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Prettyblue3yes
October 16th, 2013, 09:35 PM
Ive been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months. Its hard because he goes to another school about 15 minutes away from mine and we don't really get the chance to hangout alot. Even talking on the phone is hard. His family is kinda not good. My boyfriend works to pay bills and his dads phone bill instead of his. So we talk for about a month or so then his phone gets turned off for about 4 weeks or longer it sucks. I really love my boyfriend but sometimes I worry, he can get very moody. Homones maybe, and hes dumped me once before but that was before we met. When we talk once in a while I guess its good. Were not all , mushy feelings. For some odd reason I keep thinking hes gonna dump me. He says hes not but advise please!? Im kinda killing my self over this

Cygnus
October 16th, 2013, 09:39 PM
I think you might be overthinking, but distance and lack of talking CAN kill relationships, but I mean come on, he is 15 minutes away, you can just set up something and walk there (or he could walk to where you are) even when he doesn't have a cellphone.

Living For Love
October 17th, 2013, 05:47 AM
I guess you just need to spend more time with him. He might be a bit upset because he can't be with you more often because of his family problems. Try to give him more support and help if he needs.

TheLivingLie
October 17th, 2013, 06:05 AM
can't you visit him? 15 minutes isn't that far away. take the bus or something, go have lunch together, catch up on what you have each been doing.

TheBigUnit
October 17th, 2013, 08:07 AM
you should talk to him over the internet then? like skype him if you could