I'm confused about these two girls. Please help me out; I need advice.

[jimgriffin]

There is this one girl I have liked for a long time. I think she used to like me but I'm not completely sure. The problem is I can't really talk to her. I don't sit near her in my class. Also, I'm shy around her. Now, while I've been thinking of ways to win this girl over, I met someone else. I have developed feelings for her to. I didn't think I would be capable of this. Please believe me, I would never string both girls along or try to date them both. I feel kind of guilty for even having feelings for two girls at once. The thing about this new girl is I can actually talk to her. We joke around, have conversations, and are very friendly with each other. She has also touched my back one time while we were talking so were very comfortable with each other. So I have an easier time with the second girl, but for some reason I keep going back to thinking about the first girl. I have liked her for so long. She just seems so nice, sweet, and beautiful. The second girl send very nice and is beautiful too though. What should I do? Also, the second girl is 18 and I'm 16, would that be a problem? I know it's only two years but some people say that that age gap at our age is huge, that a high school junior dating a college freshman wouldn't work.

[Camazotz]

There is this one girl I have liked for a long time. I think she used to like me but I'm not completely sure. The problem is I can't really talk to her. I don't sit near her in my class. Also, I'm shy around her. Now, while I've been thinking of ways to win this girl over, I met someone else. I have developed feelings for her to. I didn't think I would be capable of this. Please believe me, I would never string both girls along or try to date them both. I feel kind of guilty for even having feelings for two girls at once. The thing about this new girl is I can actually talk to her. We joke around, have conversations, and are very friendly with each other. She has also touched my back one time while we were talking so were very comfortable with each other. So I have an easier time with the second girl, but for some reason I keep going back to thinking about the first girl. I have liked her for so long. She just seems so nice, sweet, and beautiful. The second girl send very nice and is beautiful too though. What should I do? Also, the second girl is 18 and I'm 16, would that be a problem? I know it's only two years but some people say that that age gap at our age is huge, that a high school junior dating a college freshman wouldn't work.

Only you can be sure of which girl is most interested in you, if they are at all. Pick the girl that you would be able to see the most and who can build a better relationship. If you couldn't see the first girl enough to make it work, then you should try to ask out the second, but if college gets in the way of a relationship, you should try to ask out the first girl.

[dsi411]

Follow your heart...
HAHA JUST KIDDING!!!!!!
Use the skills of communication that you acquired from the second girl to win the first one over.

[highschool]

to be honest, the most mature answer would be to follow your heart and be practical. But realistically go with the first girl, because something keeps pulling you back to her