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teenmanchester
October 15th, 2013, 05:24 PM
Ok I finally think i've found someone worth talking about! I'm 18, he's 24 and we chatted online for a few days before I met him and I stayed over. He was a real gentleman as i've not done much and seems like a really nice guy. The problem is that where I could easily say lets try dating because he would be my first bf, he wants to just see how it goes and has told me not to overthink things despite him also saying that this could potentially become something. He has been in relationships in the past however which have ended badly for him so i'm not sure whether that's affected him when it comes to us because we did have a great time. He also has a job which keeps him away from his home a lot and tires him out because of an injury he has. And since I stayed over we haven't been in contact despite me texting him asking how he was. Now i'm sure that you guys may think he was just using me for fun but I really don't think he's the type of person to do that. It has been a few days though and i'm just wondering if there is anything I can do or just wait for him? This could be a relationship for me and I don't want to just let it be a little fling.
Amazerful
October 15th, 2013, 06:20 PM
I think something could come from it, just take things slow and see what happens
sqishy
October 16th, 2013, 01:36 PM
I think something could come from it, just take things slow and see what happens

This, and without offending him (if he can be), asking him about you wanting it to be serious might clear things up.
teenmanchester
October 16th, 2013, 08:43 PM
This, and without offending him (if he can be), asking him about you wanting it to be serious might clear things up.

I just don't wanna seem to pushy you know? Like I don't want to hassle him about anything when we have only known each other for a few weeks, I don't want to make every 1st move either.
sqishy
October 17th, 2013, 11:26 AM
I guess take it as it comes. Worrying if it'll last long-term could make the short-term less enjoyable. Speak your thoughts to him, it'll bring things closer.
teenmanchester
October 18th, 2013, 05:33 AM
I guess take it as it comes. Worrying if it'll last long-term could make the short-term less enjoyable. Speak your thoughts to him, it'll bring things closer.

Well I text him again last night but haven't had a reply so i'm not really feeling great right now :/