Need Help and Advice!!!!

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

Okay, so there's this guy I've been chatting with here on VirtualTeen and I'm starting to fall for him(you know who you are) & I think he's starting to feel the same way. The problem being I'm falling for him. I know pursuing a relationship with him is impossible. How do I stop falling for him?

[NeuroTiger]

It's hard but the best way,I opine, is to stop chatting with him, unfortunately. :(

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

I was afraid of that :(

[NeuroTiger]

Can you stay friends with him?
I understand that girls are less stable emotionally than boys are.
Be strong :)

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

Of course I can stay friends with him, I just needed some advice on how to control my feelings for him.
I am pretty emotionally stable.
And I will be!

[sqishy]

Even if you want to just be friends with him, your feelings for more will be very hard to control. I would say to stop the relationship and wait till the feelings slowly go away (cruel and slow, as I have had experience with unrequited love). But if you are determined to handle your feelings for him, then go for the friendship.

[Amazerful]

You can be friends without completly giving up on him

[kylem]

you can still be friends with him, and if he's falling for you, he probably won't have a issue with that. just if its like a long distance thing, just makes it hard is all. But you can still talk and stuff on VT and who knows, one day maybe. Just don't get all crushed if it doesn't work out, but like I said you can still be really good friends, or a ld relationship could work to.

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

Well everything is going great with him

[CharlieHorse]

That's wonderful :)
I've been through the VT crush thing multiple times. :wub:
It's best if you two be honest and know that long distances wont really work well. I know it sucks :(.
You two should still be friends. Friends are great :)

[highschool]

i know it sucks, but luckily for you it's an online relationship and you could easily cut all contact until your feelings go away

[Luminous]

I agree that you should probably stop talking with him, unless you are sure that you can hold back your feelings. Though it is possible it will be very hard to have an online relationship and besides, VT is not a dating site at all. Besides, I thought you said you already have a boyfriend?