Am I old enough to loose my virginty?

[Prettyblue3yes]

Lately, I've been thinking alot about having sex. Actually for a while now. It comes randoly, im not horny or anything. I understand there is protection and consequences. I just realy wanna see how good sex feels. Btw I have a boyfriend of 9 months. And were both 14. He has no idea I want to have sex with him but it feels totally weird. And yes I posted something similar to this but I didnt put enough deatails. For some odd reason I want to have sex. Any advise?

[Derryck]

Well how old are you?

[Prettyblue3yes]

Im 14 almost 15. I said that.

[Derryck]

Im 14 almost 15. I said that.

Oh, right. In my opinion having sex ONLY with the people that you TRULY love and care for is absolutely fine. Just don't do it with EVERY bf you have. Id hate to see another LOVELY girl go down that path. ;)

[milduse421]

Is it legal?

[Derryck]

Is it legal?

She's in florida. It's not. I just realized that.

[Swagging god]

in most states legal age of consent is 16; however you are both still minors and age wise within a year of each other so from a legal stand point I say go for it. Talk to him about it and see how he feels if you both think it's a good step for your relationship, then have at it and HAVE FUN. Communication is key for sex.

[Swagging god]

She's in florida. It's not. I just realized that.

After hearing this I say wait til you're legal. If you are still together by the time you become " sexually legal" then you know that you are the right ones for each other as far as having sex goes and that will make it all the more special.


As a side note, what is the age of consent in Florida?

In Arkansas, where I live it's 16.

[Prettyblue3yes]

Oh thanks. And I dont live in florida, I only put that on my profile because I find it creepy giving away my location. Anyways, hes the only guy I want to have sex with. And I would marry him if I could. Im just really woried if I told him about it he might find it "gross or weird" and I feel like im ready but im unsure still.

[Prettyblue3yes]

Also its legal to have sex at an underage where I live.

[Derryck]

Also its legal to have sex at an underage where I live.

Where do you live? 0__o

[Prettyblue3yes]

Colorado.

[Prettyblue3yes]

Well that brought some silence

[Derryck]

Colorado.

Well that brought some silence

I just looked it up. The age of consent for colorado is 17. You should really wait.

[tundravortex]

Oh, right. In my opinion having sex ONLY with the people that you TRULY love and care for is absolutely fine. Just don't do it with EVERY bf you have. Id hate to see another LOVELY girl go down that path. ;)

true that

[tundravortex]

Lately, I've been thinking alot about having sex. Actually for a while now. It comes randoly, im not horny or anything. I understand there is protection and consequences. I just realy wanna see how good sex feels. Btw I have a boyfriend of 9 months. And were both 14. He has no idea I want to have sex with him but it feels totally weird. And yes I posted something similar to this but I didnt put enough deatails. For some odd reason I want to have sex. Any advise?

yea why do you want to have sex your still young,the last thing you want is to have sex and him leaving you a few mounths later and not only that you'll kinda regret doing that so i say wait till u turn 18

[Prettyblue3yes]

Ha k thanks

[Prettyblue3yes]

Yea I think im going to wait. Guys my age are kinda dicks. ;)

[Derryck]

Yea I think im going to wait. Guys my age are kinda dicks. ;)

You are a smart chick.

[tundravortex]

Yea I think im going to wait. Guys my age are kinda dicks. ;)

alright! :)

[Prettyblue3yes]

Thanks for the help. Like really

[Prettyblue3yes]

Thanks for the help. Like really, I would have done something stupid

[Derryck]

Thanks for the help. Like really, I would have done something stupid

Hey you're welcome. Anytime! :thumbsup:

[tundravortex]

Thanks for the help. Like really

Tekwanonwerá:tons(your welcome)

[kylem]

I totally know the feeling about wanting to have sex. I get that feeling lots with hormones and stuff happening now! But I would actually wait even though you really like him, sex is a really big thing in a relationship and you need to be way mature about it. I have friends that had sex, then right after they did, they broke up?? Mostly its the guys because they just want to get into a girls pants, sorry, and once they've done it, its like it's done and they move on. That's where the age thing comes in, and then there's the issue of STD's and maybe even pregnancy! I want to know how it feels to, but I want to do it with the right girl and when she's ready and wants to do it, and with protection. You have lots of time to experience it and things will totally change for you as you get older. It's just now hormones are taking over and that can sometimes be bad. Like I said, I know the feeling, I want to have sex soo bad!:wub:

[xXx_Seventy_xXx]

Here in the Great Plains of Canada you have to be 16 to legally have sex.

[NeuroTiger]

I opine that it's better to wait. It will be useful to you to know about your body better.

[BenL17]

I would say no since you can't even spell lose.

[Heyman]

Rather wait, it will be a long wait, but it will be worth it, don't make decisions that you will regret later on in life :)

[GeorgeBoy]

when you are ready

[Ammyneac]

Do it on 18 or 21...(in my opinion.)