Asking a guy out

[Eupher]

There's this guy who I really like and I can't get my mind off of him. The last BF I had he asked me but I really want to ask him. What should I do? Ps I'm not completely out yet.

[sqishy]

First find a way to make sure that he is gay/bi, so that things won't get awkward when you do ask him out. If that is cleared, being with him more is a start. Building up a connection will make asking him out less daunting. And for the actual asking out, it's just like asking out a girl, but with a guy :P. I could give advice based on observations but that's not as good as experience, which I don't have. Checking the Relationships subsection will help.
Hope this helps :).

[mwahablablah634]

I have no clue tbh. I live in a state where gays or bi's aren't accepted as much still. Girls are but guys aren't at my school. I wish I could find a guy my age but yeah thats why im moving when i can

[Wyatt 13]

Be careful dude, Im BI but still in the closet and is very hard to find guys willing to do stuff with me.

[Thomas01]

It all depends on how comfortable you feel and how safe you feel in your school.

Finding out if he is on the same team would be best because it would be much easier to ask him out. If you know he is, and you are fine with doing it, just ask him when the time is right. Do not set a specific date like "I'll tell him by ___." I have done that before and it hardly works out because of nerves. Afterwards I feel bad that I couldn't do it.

If you do not know if he plays for a similar team, and you want to keep his friendship, just find out how he feels about topics regarding our community. If you two are pretty good friends, then you can tell him if you think he will be fine with it. Also ask him when he is alone with you because you don't want him to feel peer pressured about how to respond. I told a straight guy friend, but he was fine with it. As I expected, he wasn't on the market for me so :/ but I still have his friendship so that's good :D

[justin101]

I would say that your kids sure that he is our team. Well than, find out what he likes and incorporate that in to asking him. For example, say he likes teddy bears and scavenger hunt. Than make him go around looking for cute notes, and have the last be you with a teddy bear and then ask him. What I'm trying to say is, the more thought and effort you put into asking the better. Get to know him and use that info :) I did that one and it worked )
:) good luck!