There goes my V-card

[Zeke]

Yesterday my girlfriend and I decided to have sex for the first time.. Some of you might know that around the for the whole month of September my girlfriend and I had a pregnancy scare..a one that didn't make sense and wasn't very logical, but at the same time scary, and to inform you guys she is indeed not pregnant.

Now yesterday we were very safe. We wen't out and bought our first condoms! (i made her come with me :p) and i bought trojan something, the spermicide one, just to be extra safe, and at the end i pulled out and everything for extra safety!

Now an hour later we went for it again! this time it we stopped because i seem to have a big problem with pre-ejaculation, and we stopped because we weren't sure if my "leakage" was going to come out the bottom.

After we checked both the condoms to see in case one was ripped or had a hole and they were both perfectly fine. So i'm not going to worry, but the 2nd time she was on top and the condom seemed like it was slipping upwards so we had to keep stopping to fix it. Then we just called it quits since we didn't wan't it to come out the bottom.

Now i'm not going to worry since we played it safe (I think) but i'm not 100% positive that it didn't come out the bottom.

I'm not going to worry, but it will always be on my mind (i'm a paranoia anxiety freak) so i just wan't to get your guys opinions on this! How safe do you think we were being and from what i've said what are the chances of her possibly getting pregnant. I think its low, but I just wan't to hear your guys's/ladies' opinions. If you can, more advice to be even safer would be appreciated, and she can't take birth control so that can't be an option, but other than that, what do you guys think?

[Hollywood]

Sounds like you did everything right, I really don't think you have anything to worry about.

[Mob Boss]

Dude, that was very detailed and...o.o I feel as though I was there, and I didn't want to be. I understand you're just informing us and trying to get the best answers possible. You've done everything safe. As long as neither condoms broke and you stopped the second time before anything leaked out, I'd say you're pretty safe.

[conniption]

Dude, that was very detailed and...o.o I feel as though I was there, and I didn't want to be.

I, uh, yeah. I blushed reading this. TMI.

[Zeke]

Dude, that was very detailed and...o.o I feel as though I was there, and I didn't want to be. I understand you're just informing us and trying to get the best answers possible. You've done everything safe. As long as neither condoms broke and you stopped the second time before anything leaked out, I'd say you're pretty safe.

I, uh, yeah. I blushed reading this. TMI.

Sorry! Don't really know what to say to that haha, but TMI or not, you got the point:p

[Luminous]

YAY!!!!!!!!

Okay you sound to be about as safe as you could possibly be. Don't stress.

[Wyatt 13]

Eric, thank you 4 the lesson.

[highschool]

you'll be fine

[Swagging god]

As for protection u seem to be doing everything right. To settle your worries if the condom didn't come off and it had spermicide then u should be fine, no real way of knowing if she is pregnant... Wait to see if she has her period. In future my suggestion here is what I do, I buy spermicide in a tube apply that as directed, then also use one other form of contraception as a double securement. I'm sure everyone of use who has had sex has had a pregnancy scare I have. It's a good idea to keep Plan B on hand.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

You seem to have played everything safe, there's minimal chance of pregnancy

[ksdnfkfr]

If she were to become pregnant after that much precaution, it would become an entry for Ripley's Believe It Or Not.

[NeuroTiger]

Was this a free lesson on 'Safe Sex'? :P
I guess you made all the necessary.

[sqishy]

If you're being that careful, I think you two will be fine.

[Cece14]

If you can, more advice to be even safer would be appreciated, and she can't take birth control so that can't be an option, but other than that, what do you guys think?

Why cant she take birth control??

[Zeke]

Why cant she take birth control??
Its hard to get birth control without a parent finding out.
If she were to become pregnant after that much precaution, it would become an entry for Ripley's Believe It Or Not.

Ha! That actually gave me a good laugh :D

I didn't know they made spermicidal lube, but ill surely try it out.

So spermicidal condoms along with spermicidal lube I should be all set, right?

[IAmJG]

Props
-Jareb

[teen.jpg]

I feel like I just read a one-shot .... weeeeiiiiirrrrd.

But I don't exactly know what to say, congrats?

[Amazerful]

Congrats, seems like you were as safe as possible

[CharlieHorse]

Did she enjoy it?
That's the most important thing besides safeness.
But it's good to know that people actually take measures like that to be safe. Good job :)

[HUSTLEMAN]

Its hard to get birth control without a parent finding out.


Ha! That actually gave me a good laugh :D

I didn't know they made spermicidal lube, but ill surely try it out.

So spermicidal condoms along with spermicidal lube I should be all set, right?

I laughed too. As for you congrats and at least there is someone here that takes the time to take the necessary precautions for safe sex.

[Camazotz]

I think you'll be fine. Don't stress over it, it sounds like you took enough measures to be safe.

PS. You should write fan-fiction.

[Zeke]

I think you'll be fine. Don't stress over it, it sounds like you took enough measures to be safe.

PS. You should write fan-fiction.


What is fan fiction?

And I wasn't really trying to give the whole story of my experience, I just wanted other peoples opinions on how safe I was being, and what I could do to be safer!

[Camazotz]

What is fan fiction?!

It's erotica- literary pornography about popular topics, like Harry Potter, Hunger Games, the Avengers, whatever. It was a joke because of how detailed your story was, which is almost like what fan-fiction is, but don't worry, I jest.

And I wasn't really trying to give the whole story of my experience, I just wanted other peoples opinions on how safe I was being, and what I could do to be safer!

It's fine, you're just being careful, which is a good thing. I wouldn't worry too much, it sounds like you were very cautious.