Online Relationship(s)

[DreamQueenn]

Online relationships, is a hate and love subject. some people think it's, some think they're wrong. what's your opinion? Have you ever been in one? like to share? and when did it and how did it start? how did it end? or why? I just want to get everyone's thought on the matter! sharee!! open discussion!!:P
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I Unexpectedly started online dating when i was 12 almost 13, to 15 years old (lol now) The last guy i dated was a senior in high school, who lived in Long Island, NewYork. He was poet, a writer, and loved to break dance, we met on a avatar site, and we instantly clicked, that was one of my most personal online relationships, cause i involved myself with his family, and involved each other with sending gifts to each other. We broke up cause he felt like we needed to be with people in person, and feel what a relationship was like. ( he's never been in a relationship either) i was heart broken, but i got over it, and now with my boyfriend, that is my bestfriend from school. me and the boy kept up with eachother, but his actions and behavior is the reasons we drifted apart till this day. i feel like online dating is something new to def, try out, but sometimes, if not careful can be dangerous.and i feel like you should never lie when in this kind of relationship...cause the other person will eventually find out.

[CharlieHorse]

Online relationships, is a hate and love subject. some people think it's, some think they're wrong. what's your opinion? Have you ever been in one? like to share? and when did it and how did it start? how did it end? or why? I just want to get everyone's thought on the matter! sharee!! open discussion!!:P


i wish it worked, but i would want to be with the other person a lot. I would want to hold them and just be with them. Go out with them.
I've never done anything like that.

[Melodic]

I think it depends on the situation honestly. I am in an online/long distance relationship right now but me and him met almost two years ago and still have feelings for each other. Maybe one day I'll see him again who knows?

[NeuroTiger]

I won't say it was an honest relationship since I was trying understand something about homosexuals and online dating. I was not curious. I was trying to make a survey till I unfortunately hurt someone's feelings. Believe me, it wasn't the intention.

[Hollywood]

I don't think it's wrong at all. I'm sure, in certain situations, people could make it work. My opinion, though, is that it's just not a good idea and that the chances of it actually working are very slim. I think humans really need that personal connection. It's hard to have that when you live however many miles away and you never see each other. That, and being unfaithful would be extremely easy.

Like I said though, that's just my opinion. Everyone's different and I'm sure some people can make it work.

[Wyatt 13]

I got a crush with a guy online and went bad really bad.

[sqishy]

I started a friendship over the internet in late July, but after communication errors because of how inadequate typing conveys ideas, thoughts, feelings and emotions, my 'friend' insulted me because he saw me as something I am not, and I told him to fuck off.
So even with best intentions, 2 months.

[conniption]

Eh, unless the people can see eachother IRL, I don't think it'll really work.

[Cygnus]

No no no no no.

Online relationships don't work, especially if you don't know each other. Seriously, would you not rather be with someone more... palpable? It also requires a lot of trust, something that can't be usually given, and it will consume large amounts of your time. I won't try being in one again cause the one I was in went terribly.

[Derryck]

I don't see the point in them. You never get together enough to truly experience your relationship.

[Silent Tears]

I've only dated online. I think it really depends on the person. People I've "dated" in the past, were never serious and I'm pretty sure dated people in real life at the same time. >_>

I actually met a guy on this game I play online a few months ago. I wouldn't give him the time of day. lol But, he just kept starting conversations with me. I didn't understand why... but we started talking a little more, every day. Now, we talk for hours every day. ^_^ He's changed my life, so much. He's sweet, funny and kind. I keep asking myself why he likes me so much, and how I'm so lucky to have him. My father strongly disapproves of online relationships. So, he doesn't know. I'm 17, and turn 18 next year. I'm gonna try to go visit him, then. I've talked about wanting to move out of my state, and he said that I can move with him if I wanted. I'm honestly considering it.

So, I think online relationships can be great. It honestly depends on the situation, and how honest the two of you are. It can be hard, too. It's tricky online, because it's so easy for people to lie to you. It takes a lot of trust, and you just have to hope the other person is being honest with you.

[Prettyblue3yes]

Online relashionships definitely depend on the person. For me it was hard. I wanted to be able to physically be able to touch, kiss, and hug this person. Online love sometimes gives you freedom. Your not getting naged at for suposably flirting with another guy or something similar. But you have to have patience and time. It depends on the person all the way.

[kylem]

I had a online relationship awhile ago and yeah it worked I guess as good as it could. We really liked each other and had lots in common. Just it was really hard to keep it going because we wanted to be with each other IRL and just be together so that we could actually kiss, hold hands and stuff. Because she lived way far, it made us both really sad that we couldn't be with each other. We're still awesome friends and help each other out. We help each other out when we we're having issues and talk like forever. If anything, least we became awesome friends!

[jtb124680]

an online relationship can definitely work, but it really needs to be with the goal of meeting and getting to know each other in real life

[kylem]

an online relationship can definitely work, but it really needs to be with the goal of meeting and getting to know each other in real life

that's what we found after awhile. We wanted to hang IRL soo bad but it just wasn't going to happen. Would of been awesome if we did!

[Amazerful]

I've never been in one but I'm open to it