so confused about my self:/ please help

[Prettyblue3yes]

So ive been dating this boy for about 9 months. Every thing is good ....exept that we dont see eachother. But that hasnt really effected us. Randomly at night ussally I start thinking about sex.totaly weird and I have no clue why I do this. Sometimes I get into thees deep thoughts about losing my virhinity wih him.Im not horney or anything ! The more I think about these thoughts the more I want to have sex with him!? Is this weird!? Should I talk to my bf about this? Should we have sex?

[Captain Who]

Well, I would just talk to him and tell him what you think, and if your old enough ask him if he wants to then go for it.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Perfectly normal to think about sex, that's what hormones do when you are a teenager. It is definitely not something to worry about and don't act on it unless you are like what I say after the quote.
Should I talk to my bf about this? Should we have sex?
This is very much personal preference. If you feel mature enough to understand the consequences and know about protection then talk to him about having sex with him. You and him should feel comfortable and in no way obliged to have sex with him, nor should these thoughts make you obliged to do anything.

[highschool]

It's fine, you're normal teenagers are like that. If you think you're reading ask him. but don't let your hormones get to you

[RecklessWiz]

It's perfectly normal for you to be attracted sexually but you should really some thought on having sex with him. Do you really want to?

[Deactivated]

Don't worry, it's fine to think about losing your virginity to him. After a while of dating someone, the thought of sex with them eventually comes into mind. If you feel comfortable enough to talk to him, go ahead! Tell him how you've been having thoughts of sex, and losing your virginity to him, and see how he responds. He's your boyfriend of nine months, so he shouldn't be upset with you for thinking this. However, don't engage in sexual activity until both of you are ready. That means that not only you feel comfortable with having sex with him, but he does too. Also, make sure to use proper forms of protection.

I hope I helped. Let us know how it goes! :)

[sqishy]

Don't worry, it's fine to think about losing your virginity to him. After a while of dating someone, the thought of sex with them eventually comes into mind. If you feel comfortable enough to talk to him, go ahead! Tell him how you've been having thoughts of sex, and losing your virginity to him, and see how he responds. He's your boyfriend of nine months, so he shouldn't be upset with you for thinking this. However, don't engage in sexual activity until both of you are ready. That means that not only you feel comfortable with having sex with him, but he does too. Also, make sure to use proper forms of protection.

I hope I helped. Let us know how it goes! :)

Agreed! This should help.

[Cece14]

OKay, yes, it is normal for a lot of ppl, if you feel you are ready for sex, then do it, just be sure to be protected;P

[Amazerful]

Its completely normal and if you really want to do it then you should talk to him about it

[ksdnfkfr]

It is very normal. But proceed with caution. Do not rush into anything as far as actual sex goes. I am sure your bf will be flattered that you feel this way about him.