Top or bottom

[llwoahll]

Idk i was just wondering what you are and how u personally determined it ^_^

[Abyssal Echo]

I prefer to bottom. I determined that from experience.

[Biscuithead13]

I'm exclusively a bottom :P I decided it cuz its the way I always thought and confirmed it when I actually had sex.

[Lost in the Echo]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: P101

[ksdnfkfr]

Interesting. I would have thought everyone would say both. I have a while to find out for myself. That is if we stick to the plan of waiting.

[Luis_]

I pefer top lol

[llwoahll]

Interesting. I would have thought everyone would say both. I have a while to find out for myself. That is if we stick to the plan of waiting.

Actually some people do interchangeable but lots of ppl choose one or the other

[Straight]

What do you mean top or bottom? Which half of the body you would rather see?

[sdude]

What do you mean top or bottom? Which half of the body you would rather see?

Since u are straight, u probably don't get the meaning. It means which of the gay or bi boys prefer anal intercourse being the "top" (fucker) or "bottom" fuckee....

I myself like both so far, but this is the first male to male sexual relationship I have had, so early yet.

[Wyatt 13]

I don't know.

[MstarhHaven]

Uke desu! -- I'm a bottom!

[Cook my Sock]

Id like to try being a bottomer for my first time

[Howareyou]

Probably top

[mwahablablah634]

I would prefer to be top i really can't imagine being a bottom right now. I'll learn from experience. Sometimes I can imagine being a bottom though :P

[salty]

Love it both....learned form experience

[johnsmith1]

Would like to try top at least once

[Catholic Guy]

I hate both when it comes to other guys, I hate receiving and givings not that much better

[Swagging god]

love it both....learned form experience

me too i know from experience i'm both/versatile depending on my mood

[tundravortex]

I pick both top and bottom

[llwoahll]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: P101

thxs

[Derryck]

When I do have sex, I'm gonna be at the bottom. Well actually it would depend on if one person is laying on top of the other, or if one is sitting up.

[TheBigUnit]

being the "top" (fucker) or "bottom" fuckee..
fuckee haha great explanation tho i was lost for a second too

[Josh from SoCal]

top. i tried bottom and it hurt. i simply cant imagine how you guys can do it. ow ow ow ow OWWWW.

[asldkfjgh]

I prefer bottom but could be both. I determined that because of my personality.

[chargersfan]

Both but probably prefer to bottom. (I'm a virgin but I anally masturbate often)But I am mostly versatile.

[NeutraltEAm4za]

I've tried both and I can't really say, it depends on the guy. I prefer to be the more dominant guy in the relationship but I would go either way in the bedroom :)

[tommy100]

prefer top but would like to be bottom maybe...

[NeuroTiger]

I'm straight.
I wonder why most of the posters chose 'bottom'...

[Lovelife090994]

I am a virgin and both sound painful or gross, maybe bottom but not so sure. I want to try girls first, I mean I am more bisexual anyway.

Penetrative sex so painful and or gross, anal or vaginal, I am not too thrilled of what will be like.

[HadesLady]

Probably bottom since I love anal masturbation a lot.

[hockeyfan]

Bottum

[countryboi9]

top mostly, but like to bottom some times

[TadPole1997]

I'm top for the most part.

[darthearth]

I love both! It's awesome!

[Laquifa]

Both!

[smashmouth42]

Probably top, bottom just seems painful no matter how much lube is involved

[jaycee.broham]

Top. ^-^

[Thomas01]

Bottom

Though I prefer just giving head (I'm more of a giver than a taker) (I'd like to please my partner if I cared for him even a bit)

[Kyle9000]

Bottom because im really submissive and a masochist.

[growandlove]

both although only had one experience

[Richee]

I would say that I am the kind of guy who likes both. They both work for me.

[darthearth]

I forgot to add that the reason I say I like both is because I have experienced both, but also, I was pretty sure beforehand through self-experimentation. Initial self-experimentation I think is a very wise idea in this area. It prepares you a lot for your first time (but not necessary if with someone patient).

[countryboi9]

total bottom here

[irogers707]

Top all the way.I bottomed once and I hated it. I'm WAY to dominant. I learned this through experience

[Joey.]

Although I am a virgin,
I see myself enjoying being a bottom
verses being a top. :)

Crazy thing is, most gay people i meet
are always bottom. :(

[Seth Green]

I've never had sex, but I think I would prefer bottom.

[canadaboy44]

ive only done it all the way once...took turns
but have put it in, and had it in for just a minute or so
i think i liked bottom better...didn't have to work as much

[Alex_3869]

Doesn't bottoming hurt?? I mean... I have imagined being both, but i think bottom would hurt

[Throwaway24]

Bottom.

[canadaboy44]

Doesn't bottoming hurt?? I mean... I have imagined being both, but i think bottom would hurt

bottoming only hurts if you have a hard time getting it in...but it didn't for me

[Joey.]

Doesn't bottoming hurt?? I mean... I have imagined being both, but i think bottom would hurt

Really depends on your comfort level.
Some people can take pain easier.
I like to think that your first time (like a women) hurts
You don't have insanely intense sex the first couple of times
till you get use to it?
Thats just my thought, maybe i'm wrong.

[ComfortableInChaos]

I'm versatile, but I would like to be a top, more.

[Rascaldog24]

I perfer bottom but if there ___ isn't too big I'll go top side

[henry5331]

Idk i was just wondering what you are and how u personally determined it ^_^

I've done both and I like both. For me I go with the heat of the moment.

[goal123123]

I think I am bottom.

[jcs5943]

can do either but prefer top, from experiences

[McAK101]

I'd prefer top.

[Altiier]

I personally prefer top.. but If I ever dated a guy that was "bigger" than me (take that any way you like ^_^) I wouldn't have any problem going bottom.

[goal123123]

I am a virgin, but I know I will be bottom, giving doesn't appeal to me.

[deregisterme]

I've never tried before. I'd at least like to try top

[HEN_iP]

I'm versatile but I prefer to bottom.

[Wesl3y]

I want to be a bottom my first time, and I think I'll enjoy it judging from the pleasure I get from anal masturbation.

[kangaroo]

I haven't actually had sex with another guy... yet hehe but I think I would be a top.. I don't like the idea of ever bottoming to be honest. If the other boy didn't either then sex would be off the table for us unfortunately, not that I wouldn't be ok with that cause its his choice too and I would respect that! :)

[trackstar15]

Bottom

[merlin1]

Top. But like both.

[Connor.]

I've not done it, but I think I'd at least like to try both to find out what I like.

[teen.jpg]

No idea really. Guess it comes down to whatever happens when the time comes .

[ryanpeterson832]

I prefer top. Learned from experience

[nino51300]

Both work for me but I am more of a control freak haha

[chronic06]

I'm more of a top than a bottom but i don't mind bottoming.

[wirelessbrain]

both are fun but bottom would be nice as I can feel my chick's tits

[XxVeggiexX]

I dont like the idea of sticking my penis into something, So right now I can say I am not a top, nor is the idea of someone sticking something in me is pleasing, so I guess I will know when I actually have sex

[roadwarrior]

bottom

[Morgoth42]

I prefer the top, but I'm willing to be the bottom as well. Learned from experiance

[darthearth]

both are fun but bottom would be nice as I can feel my chick's tits

"Top" is the penetrator in male/male anal sex, "Bottom" is the receiver. Just thought I would clarify.

[Ariesboy]

both are fun but bottom would be nice as I can feel my chick's tits

Im not sure you get the concept.

[wirelessbrain]

sorry I actually don't really I thought it was the guy in the bottom and the girl on the top but it seems that i got it all wrong. ops

[Gifford]

I haven't actually had sex with another guy... yet hehe but I think I would be a top.. I don't like the idea of ever bottoming to be honest. If the other boy didn't either then sex would be off the table for us unfortunately, not that I wouldn't be ok with that cause its his choice too and I would respect that! :)

There are a number of pleasurable and very satisfying ways to have great sex between two guys besides anal sex.



I've not done it, but I think I'd at least like to try both to find out what I like.

That's the whole point about this topic: you have to be open-minded and get rid of all pre-conceived ideas of what you think bottoming or topping is. No one has any problem knowing that hetero sex means the guy is the top and the girl is the bottom. One way or another, it's pretty self-evident. Bottoming does not have to be all painful if you have a good experienced partner. Anyone who knows what they're doing can have a pleasurable experience with a minimal amount of discomfort at first, but then it becomes painless. It's all about your mental attitude about it, as well as preconceived ideas a guy may have about what it is to be a man. Being a bottom makes you no less of a man.

I am not soliciting sex in any way, but please feel free to write and ask anything you like and I'll try to help. Your decision needs to be an informed one, not one made out of ignorance.

[mww113]

I consider myself a versatile top. Nothing wrong with bottoming, but I find it logistically more complicated :P

[Xeon931]

Wel bottom becuase i can grab everything

[Storm'sGame15]

Probably bottom. Not sure if I would want to be top....

[Jtyler]

I guess I would be a bottom

[SouthGeorgiaTeen]

Most likely a bottom

[darthearth]

I consider myself a versatile top. Nothing wrong with bottoming, but I find it logistically more complicated :P

How so? Common positions like doggy or missionary are pretty straightforward aren't they?

Wel bottom becuase i can grab everything

This isn't referring to who is actually underneath the other person in sex, it's referring to who penetrates in male/male anal sex (top) and who receives (bottom).

There are a number of pleasurable and very satisfying ways to have great sex between two guys besides anal sex.


I think he knows there are other sexual activity options, it's just that he, like most people, use the term "sex" to mean only intercourse (vaginal/anal) while things like oral are just blowjobs or sexual activity.

[itsanthonym]

I'm only bottom, personal preference.

[disckjokeyman]

id just like to be top

[Crosby14]

im a Vers, but i lean towards bottom more

[rhyse3]

have to be top

[Will479]

I like both, but tend to be more top, cause I'm bi so I'm used to having sex with girls as well, and I'm mostly top with them.

[Zachary G]

I am a versatile bottom, and I learned this from experimenting :D

[Bigswedishboy]

Love it both....learned form experience

Same but I only require control over what's happening.

[Timo-Bavaria]

bottom or behind :))

[chiisaiaoiryu]

It's something that you learn from experience. I've had a fuck bud during most of high school, and I always defaulted to bottom. I can't say myself that I'm exclusively that since I haven't tried topping yet. I'd say to try both at least a couple of times and see which one suits you best.

[AlexOnToast]

I have never been a top, so I can't rightly say one way or the other. I imaging being top would be more...comfortable...