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bondsboy
October 13th, 2013, 05:32 PM
anyone else embarsed to be shirless cause you arent all fit with a 6 pack? or is it just me?

thanks

Luis_
October 13th, 2013, 06:57 PM
It really doesnt matter what people think. If you like go for it! Dont care what others think of you cause you lnow, Haters gonna hate.

slicnick844
October 13th, 2013, 08:51 PM
I dont have a six pack but I am pretty skinny so I dont give a crap what others think...

AlinCali
October 13th, 2013, 08:59 PM
I feel the same way. I was even a bit nervous about my ex seeing me shirtless the first time.

Stryker125
October 13th, 2013, 10:08 PM
Yeah I'm the same way

fast8
October 13th, 2013, 10:15 PM
Like i tell my friends dont worry about what anyone else thinks of u be proud of urself

BandedKlepto
October 13th, 2013, 10:35 PM
I don't have abs (personally, they don't appeal to me) but I go shirtless often, why care what others think? No point.

ksdnfkfr
October 13th, 2013, 11:00 PM
Same as everyone else. I am pretty much a stick and very pale but I really don't care.

AbyssalLight7
October 13th, 2013, 11:02 PM
I'm skinny, weak, not muscular, I can go shirtless, I get self-conscious though.

raynaliv
October 13th, 2013, 11:57 PM
I guess if I had man boobs, sure. Other than that, don't worry about it.

mylittlelizard8
October 14th, 2013, 08:28 AM
I'm not embarrassed! I go to nude beaches!

EneasR
October 14th, 2013, 10:27 AM
Only a little bit.

Straight
October 14th, 2013, 10:55 AM
I was really self concious, But I might not be now... I have been doing pushups for about 1 and a half months and I have started to see a six pack and pecks! You should defiantly try... At first I could only do like... three.... but now I can do 25-30 in a row

asldkfjgh
October 14th, 2013, 09:05 PM
I wish I had a six pack, but I have no drive to work out, but anyone who comes to my house knows I love to be shirtless.

lolwutsuperslide
October 14th, 2013, 11:08 PM
Around my family, no.
But like at the pool and stuff yeah a bit.

Nick M
October 15th, 2013, 03:06 AM
Ya I do too

GeorgeBoy
October 15th, 2013, 11:32 AM
it doesn't matter guy ;)

NeuroTiger
October 15th, 2013, 11:36 AM
I have to agree, unfortunately. :(
But I'll build my body soon enough, hopefully. :)
It's just me...I'm under so much pressure sometimes as everybody usually expects me to be perfect :(

Howareyou
October 15th, 2013, 04:09 PM
I'm not embarrassed because I do not have a six pack. You should not worry what others think of you like that. It really doesn't matter.

Fdmember
October 15th, 2013, 05:25 PM
anyone else embarsed to be shirless cause you arent all fit with a 6 pack? or is it just me?

thanks

Me!!!!

McAK101
October 15th, 2013, 05:27 PM
Not one bit. Though, I do have a 'fit' body because of the sport that I play.

fphillips1996
October 20th, 2013, 12:10 PM
I've been chubby most of my life, and after losing weight with abs starting to come through I get a little less self-conscious, but I don't like to go swimming or go to the beach because I don't like taking my top off. It'll take some time.

kylem1229
October 20th, 2013, 01:20 PM
I dont have a 6 pac, and im not embarrassed to go shirtless. Who cares how people look..

Heyman
October 20th, 2013, 03:20 PM
Same probolem

ComfortableInChaos
October 20th, 2013, 03:23 PM
Yeah, I don't like being seen shirtless because I don't have a 'great' six pack abs, toned body. I sleep nude now, though, so hopefully, I don't get caught lmao

Thomas01
October 20th, 2013, 03:24 PM
I am alright with it, like if I'm swimming with my friends or at a beach. I don't think my body is attractive to others but I perspnally like being slim so it doesn't matter.

Though I don't care, it's not like I'll take off my shurt in front of people on purpose. Like to me there is a time and a place, not that it's bad but I feel anytime people are semi-naked, there will be awkwardness

spanishguy11
December 7th, 2013, 01:19 PM
Im not fat neither slim, just average, so I don't have nothing interesting to show off. Maybe If I trained, Id be "proud" being shirtless but anyway I won't get shirtless in the street, mall… there are circumstances and circumstances :)

Living For Love
December 7th, 2013, 03:11 PM
I feel a bit embaressed, mostly because I think I'm too skinny for my age.

ausley
December 7th, 2013, 05:07 PM
don't worry about it. I used to be be embarrassed too even though I was pretty skinny. Honestly though once I got into high school I didn't really care, cause really there's nothing to be embarrassed about. I had a six pack and I had times when I didn't, no ones gonna make fun of you cause they have the same exact problems so don't sweat buddy.

Datguy1
December 7th, 2013, 06:00 PM
im nnot that fat or skinny but i just dont do it

mrmee
December 7th, 2013, 07:18 PM
Ill admit, im no steroid freak, but Im more athletic than most kids in my grade, and I don't care if people see my almost abs or not. lol

Berad
December 7th, 2013, 08:38 PM
Nope, I've never cared much. I've always been naturally skinny though.

deltadart
December 8th, 2013, 12:46 AM
I'm not very muscular but I'm not embarrassed to be shirtless in front of boys.

Jakie23
December 10th, 2013, 02:39 PM
I'm very self conscious about my body. I'm not exactly unfit, but I always feel like people will take the piss out of me

Keyboardwarrior95
December 10th, 2013, 05:06 PM
Be proud of yourself!!!

Cook my Sock
December 10th, 2013, 05:28 PM
I'm very self conscious about my body. I'm not exactly unfit, but I always feel like people will take the piss out of me

im the same

SillyShyGuy
December 16th, 2013, 02:07 AM
I have a four-pack and I never want to remove my shirt around others.

SouthGeorgiaTeen
December 16th, 2013, 02:12 AM
I hate going around without a shirt. I feel to exposed without a short on.

ryu_
December 16th, 2013, 07:08 AM
aha yeah its not just you :p
everytime i'm getting changed for sport or going out to the beach with mates it's a bit awkward for me. I have this mindset where i think im big, have a round figure, but everyone says i'm slim and thin and that i shouldn't diet :p maybe if i put the effort into actually working off the stomach into abs, then maybe i wouldn't feel terrible when taking off my shirt :p

mattcallsu
December 16th, 2013, 09:00 AM
I don't really care what others think

whatsgoinon53
December 16th, 2013, 09:35 AM
anyone else embarsed to be shirless cause you arent all fit with a 6 pack? or is it just me?

thanks

Well I'm slowly getting more muscle but I'm definitely not super fit...I don't really care.

Hazard7707
December 16th, 2013, 10:11 AM
I'm not exactly fit but I'm not embarassed to be shirtless cuz I don't really care.

Fanta_Lover44
December 16th, 2013, 10:40 AM
Nope i'm not. I don't have a 6 pack and don't think of it like that.

SoRandom
December 23rd, 2013, 08:59 AM
you just gotta boost your self-esteem up! I always tell everyone that its so hot that's why I'm shirtless .

Gifford
December 27th, 2013, 12:13 PM
I understand why so many guys feel embarrassed to take their shirts off; I'm sure at the beach or pool they feel the same way about their bodies. Don't think about what you're NOT, think about what/who you ARE. Never compare yourself to others, we all fall short in one way or another. Life's an adventure to be enjoyed, not feared. It's just fear that holds you back. You are who you are and nothing's wrong with you. It takes all kinds to make a world where everyone has a place, and something of value to contribute.

I've never been embarrassed about my body, but I've been lucky to have been blessed to love athletics, compete in sports and to love working out. I'm a carefree guy and a bit of a show-off. I love the nude beaches of So. Calif - there are so many. And there are all types of bodies there. Trust me, if you saw some of the naked bodies there, you'd go, "Damn, now there's a whale if I ever saw one; if they can go naked, then for sure I can too". And you can. Be proud of who you are and of what you've got. So many have bodies you'd NEVER want to have, so be grateful. You only live once, and this is it. And your teen years are short, so enjoy them all the more. Don't look back one day and wish you'd lived a fuller life.

I didn't think this up myself, I have a really cool mom & dad, his dad, my gramps, is gay; and I have 2 mentors in their mid-30's who help me. So I've got a good support team and get the benefit of lots of wisdom.

I love helping people, and if any of you want to talk about absolutely anything, please write me. What's to lose? Love to all.

disckjokeyman
December 27th, 2013, 01:00 PM
i think its fine cuz you are not the onliest boy that hasnt six pack

nrod
December 27th, 2013, 08:22 PM
i kinda am. onlly comfortable with one friend of mine

ddbumblebee
December 27th, 2013, 10:07 PM
No, in Jervis where I'm staying heaps of people walk around without their shirts off, not because we're bogan haha but because it just doesn't really worry anyone :) I'm never embarrassed to show some skin :)

Lyric
December 28th, 2013, 01:47 AM
No, 'cause I have one. :P

Pulp501
December 28th, 2013, 05:18 AM
For me if I was fat I would love being shirtless even without a six pack.

jit5347
December 28th, 2013, 06:59 AM
I don't have a six pack, and I'm quite fat but I don't care. People are amazed by my hairy belly anyway

Michael_6
December 28th, 2013, 09:27 AM
I am because I am bit healthy and have a hairy chest

RavleIncarnate
December 28th, 2013, 10:06 AM
I'm fit, tanned, have recognizable pecs and stuff, so why, you ask, do I not go shirtless unless under pressure!? I have absolutely no self-confidence, even if my friend dazzawazza says I should, because I have bigger than normal for my age parts. I don't like it.