a question for girls

[wwefan123]

how does it feel to be ''humped''? because 1 of my friends wants to know because shes going to have sex with his girlfriend and and he said he doesn't want to hurt her and he wants to make sure their safe cause its both their first time he said

[Serenity]

Well asking how it feels to be 'humped' isn't exactly an appropriate question. And if your friend doesn't want to hurt his gf, maybe they shouldn't be having sex in the first place until he knows what he's doing.

[jay92]

shes going to have sex with his girlfriend and he doesnt want to hurt her......
first things first....is this about two lesbians?

if its a guy and a girl, and its their first time then it may hurt her a bit with the whole popping the cherry thing.... has to happen sometime but it may already be broken, cos supposably it can break when riding a bike or other things....

if he doesnt wanna hurt her and he decides not to, then either he wont ever have sex with her or he has to find some other guy to hurt her :S

[ScotsGirl]

Well asking how it feels to be 'humped' isn't exactly an appropriate question.

But it is rather funny! :D 'humped'... LMAO

Anyway...back on topic

Can I ask, have they done other sexual activities together?

I really hope they are both ready. Having sex for the first time is something that you will remember for a very long time and it isnt something you want to remember if its shit ...right?:eyebrow:

xxx

[NextToNormal]

i dont know what it feels like to be "humped", but i do know that regardless of how careful your friend is, its gonna hurt his gf a little bit just because of the fact that she is a virgin.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Humping isn't likely to really hurt her unless he goes crazy with it (though it may be uncomfortable. He can only tell what feels good for him, she may have to direct him to move a little bit in whatever direction to make it feel good for her too). Chances are she'll speak up if she's in pain. I hear that for most people, the first time you have sex is usually more painful and/or awkward than anything else anyways.

Overall though, I think if your friend can't talk to his girlfriend about his sex concerns, perhaps they aren't ready to be having sex? Have him think about that.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

It would seem that they aren't ready yet. Have they done other sexual things together? Remember there is A LOT of stuff you can do BESIDES sex! You should get comfortable doing stuff like that together before you decide to make a huge decision like having sex for the first time. Any doubt or worries such as this MEANS that they aren't ready. Theres always time for that later. Tell them to enjoy themselves in "other" ways for the time being (mutual masturbation maybe).