Should we get back together?

[Amazerful]

Last night I was talking to my ex and he kept suggesting that we get back together, but I already have someone else that is interested in me along with the fact that the reason we broke up is because he had cheated. He, claims to have changed and I'm confused on whether or not to believe him.

What I should do?:confused:

[kylem]

My ex cheated on me, that's exactly why we split. She wanted to get back together when it didn't work out with the guy she cheated on me with. But I blew her off and told her its not going to happen. So now she isn't seeing anyone because everyone knows what she did to me. The only thing I can suggest is that like me, she went for someone else because she thought they would be better. Just like your ex, he probably cheated on you because he thought the other girl was better, or that he could get something from her that he couldn't from you like sex. I would just chill and tell him you have to think about it, but your not sure. Tell him he had a good thing and he blew it! There's lots of guys out there that don't cheat, just like there's lots of girls out there that don't cheat. You just have to find the right one! If he cheated once, he'll cheat again!

[Pittsburgh]

Im kinda in the same situation, dont know what im gonna do

[Hollywood]

I hate to give such a generic response, but I believe it to be true most of the time: once a cheater, always a cheater.

Generally, I always think that getting back together with an ex is a bad idea, but even moreso when it ended in a bad way (i.e. cheating). I wouldn't do it, but of course, you know this person and I do not. I could be dead wrong about them, that's just my opinion.

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I don't think taking back a cheater is fair to yourself.

[Jaster]

What kylem said. Think about it, but if he cheated once he can cheat again. Personally I would deny

[Mynick]

I mean who cheats once will do it twice, i dont think you should go back to him.

[Morg]

People never change.

[kylem1229]

Some people do change. Maybe he is really sorry? However he made a mistake. If you like this other person, then take him.

[Blood]

Do you still like him? If so, give it another try. People can in fact change, seeing as change is the only constant in the world. You have the advantage in this situation of knowing he's cheated before, and letting him know that this is his second and last chance.

[Cygnus]

I don't think taking back a cheater is fair to yourself.

I agree. He is an ex for a reason, and the chances of it happening again are there.

[Amazerful]

My ex cheated on me, that's exactly why we split. She wanted to get back together when it didn't work out with the guy she cheated on me with. But I blew her off and told her its not going to happen. So now she isn't seeing anyone because everyone knows what she did to me. The only thing I can suggest is that like me, she went for someone else because she thought they would be better. Just like your ex, he probably cheated on you because he thought the other girl was better, or that he could get something from her that he couldn't from you like sex. I would just chill and tell him you have to think about it, but your not sure. Tell him he had a good thing and he blew it! There's lots of guys out there that don't cheat, just like there's lots of girls out there that don't cheat. You just have to find the right one! If he cheated once, he'll cheat again!

I never really thought of it that way, thanks

[Amazerful]

Do you still like him? If so, give it another try. People can in fact change, seeing as change is the only constant in the world. You have the advantage in this situation of knowing he's cheated before, and letting him know that this is his second and last chance.

After something he said today I'm sure he hasn't changed, he ruined his last chance before he even got it, but thanks for the advice

[Cece14]

NO! Dont!