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Axw_JD
October 12th, 2013, 10:36 AM
I was wondering this... I have been feeling pretty low as of late and I could honestly use a hug, but I am deathly afraid of asking my best friend because I don't want him to freak out on me... I feel that this is such a stupid question but its pretty important to me.

ugaboy
October 12th, 2013, 10:39 AM
Yes - I do hug a lot of my friends, boys and girls. I dont think any of us find it weird.

drew6
October 12th, 2013, 10:42 AM
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ksdnfkfr
October 12th, 2013, 10:47 AM
Not a stupid question at all, I'm interested to see what kind of feedback it gets.
I think that has to do a lot with culture and ethnicity. I think when it come to average Anglo American younger buddies, probably not much hugging happens.
My same age cousin and I are pretty close but we don't hug. The only person I get hugs from outside of grown ups, is my best/only friend, but the thing with that is we are boyfriends (not that just hugging a best friend is in any way gay). But anyways I hope you are able to exchange hugs with him, they are good for you.

teen.jpg
October 12th, 2013, 10:50 AM
I don't hug my friends :lol: Not because I'm against it, but there hasn't been a point where I woould need to.

Hollywood
October 12th, 2013, 10:56 AM
I'm not really a hugger, but a friend of mine needs a hug there's no question I'd give him one.

sqishy
October 12th, 2013, 11:12 AM
Not a stupid question at all, I'm interested to see what kind of feedback it gets.
I think that has to do a lot with culture and ethnicity. I think when it come to average Anglo American younger buddies, probably not much hugging happens.
My same age cousin and I are pretty close but we don't hug. The only person I get hugs from outside of grown ups, is my best/only friend, but the thing with that is we are boyfriends (not that just hugging a best friend is in any way gay). But anyways I hope you are able to exchange hugs with him, they are good for you.

Agree. Just ask him, as a good friend, he should be ok with it.

Amazerful
October 12th, 2013, 11:53 AM
guys do hug but its different from when girls hug

Luminous
October 12th, 2013, 11:56 AM
I don't see why not.

Jaster
October 12th, 2013, 12:01 PM
The only people ive ever hugged are my parents. So meh, I could use one to. Been so long ive given up though and live with a hidden depression

BookSmart
October 12th, 2013, 12:55 PM
Some people are huggy types (like me) and some aren't. Either way, when a friend needs a hug, that person will be there for you and hug you back, even if it feels a little uncomfortable on his part. I don't think you'll lose a friend because you asked him for a much needed hug. Virtual hug from me :hug:. I hope everything works out and you feel better soon.

Mynick
October 12th, 2013, 01:23 PM
I don't, i hate hugs. Anyways ask him, it can't hurt.

Blood
October 12th, 2013, 02:36 PM
I have a lot of guy friends and they always give me hugs and hug each other. I don't see why guys wouldn't hug each other? Go ahead and ask him.

ShatteredWings
October 12th, 2013, 03:20 PM
at least in my area it's a reasonably common greeting among friends.
granted, not quite the "cuddle" hug but it's a thing.

AlinCali
October 12th, 2013, 03:22 PM
I am definitely a hugger. I typically hug mostly my friends that are girls but a friendly guy hug happens sometimes

kylem1229
October 12th, 2013, 03:24 PM
I do all the time, in a friendly manor.

Trenton_
October 12th, 2013, 04:13 PM
I'd just tell him your problem and ask him for a hug. Where I'm from guys and girls hug hello/good bye, guys will kind of do a shoulder bump hand grab and once in a while a quick normal hug and that's all in public. Friend needs a hug cuz they're having problems and most guys are down for that if it's private. For a funeral or other horrible news would be public.

Cygnus
October 12th, 2013, 04:51 PM
I hug with my friends and its totally cool, not randomly of course, but we latinos have less of a personal space bubble so its cool.

Jess
October 12th, 2013, 05:05 PM
of course they hug! Friends give friends hug, no matter girl or boy

PinkFloyd
October 12th, 2013, 05:27 PM
Yeah, it's called a brohug. I hug my friends all the time. Go for it! :)

Cognizant
October 12th, 2013, 08:57 PM
Yeah, it's called a brohug. I hug my friends all the time. Go for it! :)

Really? I just call it a hug....... :P

PinkFloyd
October 12th, 2013, 09:21 PM
Really? I just call it a hug....... :P

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJVt8kUAm9Q

Vocabulous
October 14th, 2013, 09:58 PM
I don't, but I also hate touching people, so there you go

conniption
October 14th, 2013, 11:23 PM
I don't dig people getting in my personal space, so I don't hug very often.

centropede
October 15th, 2013, 10:29 AM
I want to hug someone too.... but i dont because i guess they will scream "gay" or something like that...

Steven1
October 15th, 2013, 10:48 AM
I don't really hug my friends. The only one who I do hug is a girl who I'm close to (in a friendship way, not in the relationship way). But I guess I'm not really that close to any of my other friends.

UnknownError
October 15th, 2013, 06:43 PM
theres one guy friend that i hug when we say hey and bye but only cause he done it to me first. i wouldnt be the one to start the hug lol.

IAmJG
October 15th, 2013, 07:00 PM
Me and my best bro Keagan always hug he's like a brother to me. Also, you shouldn't be nervous just be straight up with him and ask if its alright, tell him you really need one. :D

Derryck
October 15th, 2013, 07:15 PM
It would depend on if you mean the typical manly hug (pats on the back) or the traditional hug (just...... a hug)

Camazotz
October 15th, 2013, 07:53 PM
Handshakes are more of my thing, but there are plenty of guys that hug. I prefer handshakes because they're classy.

user_of_epicness
October 15th, 2013, 08:52 PM
Of course guys hug, just don't make it awkward :) Me and my good friends hug a lot, and it is fine.

Wyatt 13
October 17th, 2013, 03:13 PM
I hug friends and family all the times.

CosmicNoodle
October 17th, 2013, 04:07 PM
I often need a hug, but the problem is I can't stand close physical contact with others. Good job brain.

BlueRaspberry943
October 17th, 2013, 08:47 PM
All the guys that I know hug. However, I'm a girl, and I'm not a big hugger..males and females think I'm weird for that.