Have you settled on Bi?

[Jhcx]

Are there many people here who have settled on being Bi. Im not talking about people who say they are bi curious or bi now gay tomoro. I've decided that i am Bi and not curious because 7 years later it cant be possible to still be curious. But in saying that I never look for a relationship with guys or really go out of my way to get their attention. I'd let them make the first move and not many lads would because i act(theres a fine line in there) straight and do rather have a strong interest in the ladies between being with, making out, and being in bed with.
Its like so if your interested is more so in girls you're straight. Ya you'd think so but.. it would be an absolute lie to say that. So its been easy to settle on the Bi because as much as i'd like to deny i have no interest in guys. I have and you cant run away from that. plus its fun to be on both sides of the border.

So are there many others here who are settled on being permanently bi.

[Amazerful]

Are there many people here who have settled on being Bi. Im not talking about people who say they are bi curious or bi now gay tomoro. I've decided that i am Bi and not curious because 7 years later it cant be possible to still be curious. But in saying that I never look for a relationship with guys or really go out of my way to get their attention. I'd let them make the first move and not many lads would because i act(theres a fine line in there) straight and do rather have a strong interest in the ladies between being with, making out, and being in bed with.
Its like so if your interested is more so in girls you're straight. Ya you'd think so but.. it would be an absolute lie to say that. So its been easy to settle on the Bi because as much as i'd like to deny i have no interest in guys. I have and you cant run away from that. plus its fun to be on both sides of the border.

So are there many others here who are settled on being permanently bi.

I never thought of it that way but it is easier than beating yourself up in trying to decide your sexuality

[ksdnfkfr]

I'm too young to settle on anything yet, but I got a lot out of your perspective.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Are there many people here who have settled on being Bi. Im not talking about people who say they are bi curious or bi now gay tomoro. I've decided that i am Bi and not curious because 7 years later it cant be possible to still be curious. But in saying that I never look for a relationship with guys or really go out of my way to get their attention. I'd let them make the first move and not many lads would because i act(theres a fine line in there) straight and do rather have a strong interest in the ladies between being with, making out, and being in bed with.
Its like so if your interested is more so in girls you're straight. Ya you'd think so but.. it would be an absolute lie to say that. So its been easy to settle on the Bi because as much as i'd like to deny i have no interest in guys. I have and you cant run away from that. plus its fun to be on both sides of the border.

So are there many others here who are settled on being permanently bi.

Tht is a good way to put it - but every one is different in thier own way
maybe your post will help others to feel better if they have doubts or feel bad about how they think/feel.

[Jhcx]

Thanks. Hopefully it helps others out as well.

[Luminous]

There are a lot of people who are bi and not bi curious. There are a lot of differences. Usually someone who is bi curious is not attracted to the person of the same sex except for experimenting, and there are rarely any emotional ties besides friendship. I'm not sure what you mean by 'settled on bi'. If you're bisexual you're bisexual, if you're bicurious you're bicurious, or straight or gay or anything else. If you don't have any label you are comfortable with then don't label yourself. That's a choice. A lot of people label themselves because they happen to fit into that label or they don't know any better, but many people don't fit into any one specific label because that's just who they are. And that's hard because this is a world full of labels, but it's true. I'm lucky that I fit perfectly in to the label 'homosexual' because I feel all kinds of attraction towards people of the same sex, and only occasionally mild curiosity about the opposite sex, but that doesn't mean everyone fits into a label like I do and even if you don't you should be comfortable with that.

[teen.jpg]

I know what I am, if that's what you're asking.

[Mynick]

Right now i'm not sure what i am, i'll let it flow, let see where it takes me. I probably only settled down in early 20s.

[SawyerSauce]

I haven't settled. I was curious and then I thought I was bi for a long time. About two years it was. Now, I realize that bi is not the proper term for my sexuality. I am actually pansexual, which means I don't base attraction on gender. I prefer male, this is a preference just like I prefer black hair. You can definitely have preferences in your sexuality. It sounds like you might be bi with a preference for women.

[Lovelife090994]

Thanks. Hopefully it helps others out as well.

I am still unsettled but I see your logic there.

[Wyatt 13]

Im not sure about my sexuality yet