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Captain Who
October 11th, 2013, 01:52 PM
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Amazerful
October 11th, 2013, 01:59 PM
This is a pretty common thing that happens to a lot of students, you are just probably really curious of him and fascinated by him in some way, it will eventually pass

Luminous
October 11th, 2013, 02:03 PM
Yeah I think it's a pretty common fantasy. Just realize that he's never going to like you back, and if he does, it's in a perverted way. But it's fine if it's just a fantasy.

kylem1229
October 11th, 2013, 05:09 PM
Its common, but its not gonna work, and wont last long. Just dont try to act on it in any way, it will eventually go away.

Captain Who
October 13th, 2013, 12:51 PM
Thank you, so it's just a phase? I just don't like thinking this way because I know that liking him is wrong.

ksdnfkfr
October 13th, 2013, 01:13 PM
I have read about this before in forums. It happens a lot in puberty and is something that will fade. It is always a very difficult thing when an unwanted though will not leave your head. But most likely in the not too distant future, you will realize it is gone. Other things will take its place.

Captain Who
October 13th, 2013, 01:25 PM
I have read about this before in forums. It happens a lot in puberty and is something that will fade. It is always a very difficult thing when an unwanted though will not leave your head. But most likely in the not too distant future, you will realize it is gone. Other things will take its place.

What happens if it doesn't disappear? I have truckloads of tiny voices in my head telling me to do things that I don't want to do. (Taking lessons he teaches) Now I am too far into the term to swap subjects.

BookSmart
October 13th, 2013, 02:14 PM
My friend has a crush on one of her teachers. Don't be too freaked out, the important thing is that you know what you're feeling is wrong. Think of it this way, you only have to deal with him for several more months. If it makes you feel better, I have a math teacher who I'll occasionally catch myself thinking looks and sounds like he should be in a medical soap opera.

ksdnfkfr
October 13th, 2013, 02:50 PM
What happens if it doesn't disappear? I have truckloads of tiny voices in my head telling me to do things that I don't want to do. (Taking lessons he teaches) Now I am too far into the term to swap subjects.

I'd say to talk it out with a school counselor. They keep what you say confidential and will have already probably counseled someone on this before.

highschool
October 13th, 2013, 04:57 PM
when I was 13, I had this super hot p.E. teacher..no joke he looked like an abercrombie model and you could see his abs through his shirt, and he was adorable, nice, and shy. Every girl in the school was in love with him. Including our teachers( they flirt with him)

McAK101
October 13th, 2013, 05:15 PM
It's common, but it will never work. It's just a phase and you'll be past it after a while.

Captain Who
October 13th, 2013, 09:56 PM
Ah ok, thanks everyone :)

Derryck
October 14th, 2013, 04:47 PM
This would be the perfect opportunity for me to ask why you like him. So why?

Captain Who
October 18th, 2013, 09:46 AM
This would be the perfect opportunity for me to ask why you like him. So why?

I like him because, well he is really kind and helpful (I like kind people) he treats me not just like another student and if I ask for help he is more than willing (even before another student) then I guess I really like how he looks (especially his hair!) and he always smells nice.

Derryck
October 18th, 2013, 01:33 PM
I like him because, well he is really kind and helpful (I like kind people) he treats me not just like another student and if I ask for help he is more than willing (even before another student) then I guess I really like how he looks (especially his hair!) and he always smells nice.

You should realize that that's how teachers are supposed to be.

Captain Who
October 19th, 2013, 12:37 AM
You should realize that that's how teachers are supposed to be.

I know, but it's not my fault I just can't get him out of my head and think sometimes how cool it would be if I was with him all the time. :P
I can barley talk to him without tying my tongue and wanting to see him everyday. -.-

Derryck
October 19th, 2013, 07:10 AM
I know, but it's not my fault I just can't get him out of my head and think sometimes how cool it would be if I was with him all the time. :P
I can barley talk to him without tying my tongue and wanting to see him everyday. -.-

Think about this though. There could be a guy your age in your school who would be perfect for you, but you are too focused on this teacher to find him. Also, think about how guys your age would feel if they found out you liked someone who is just too old for you. Things like this really kill our self-esteem. Liking a guy that much older than you really causes us guys to lose hope in their own abilities. Look at the guys YOUR age, I promise there is bound to be one out there for you. And also think about how your infatuation with this ADULT makes other guys feel. (hint: it hurts and its very frustrating)

Captain Who
October 19th, 2013, 03:42 PM
Think about this though. There could be a guy your age in your school who would be perfect for you, but you are too focused on this teacher to find him. Also, think about how guys your age would feel if they found out you liked someone who is just too old for you. Things like this really kill our self-esteem. Liking a guy that much older than you really causes us guys to lose hope in their own abilities. Look at the guys YOUR age, I promise there is bound to be one out there for you. And also think about how your infatuation with this ADULT makes other guys feel. (hint: it hurts and its very frustrating)

I see what you mean, and it's probably true but, I highly doubt being the new kid and everything that any guy would like me like that even in the future. I do like a guy and he is my age awkwardness being he is my friends ex. Oops. Always something with me, I always fall for the guys I know I can't have really.

Derryck
October 19th, 2013, 03:59 PM
I see what you mean, and it's probably true but, I highly doubt being the new kid and everything that any guy would like me like that even in the future. I do like a guy and he is my age awkwardness being he is my friends ex. Oops. Always something with me, I always fall for the guys I know I can't have really.

I think you need to tackle your feelings right now and really ask yourself why you fall for these guys.