i dont wonna be gay/bisexual

[michael123]

i am sure im gay or bisexual b.c i like guys & gurls but i dont want to like guys at all (as sex partners) i like guys more than gurls...when im bout to have sex wit a gurl i dont erect so fast... but i would love to...can i change my orientation? or at leats like gurls more than guys and get hard easy with them:confused:

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

You can't change your orientation, no. But lucky for you, if you're bi and don't want to go out with guys, you don't have to because you like girls too. I encourage you to try to accept this part of yourself though. Some of your attraction to guys could very well be hormones as well, so don't despair--it could easily diminish over the years. Don't beat yourself up over it if things don't change, though. It's just who you are.

[Malcolm Tucker]

What age are you? Maybe it is just hormones you know. But maybe if you don't want to be orientated that way, maybe you're not.

[michael123]

i am 15 years old

[The Entertainer]

what you are is what you are. It could be hormones, but it could be who you are. Dont forget, its completely natural to be bisexual, and dont let it bother you

[michael123]

well thats why i am very confused bacause i feel more attracted by guys porn but then in the future i wonna have a normal family with a wife and also i feel wierd and a kind of disgusted when i get very close to a guy

[byee]

well thats why i am very confused bacause i feel more attracted by guys porn but then in the future i wonna have a normal family with a wife and also i feel wierd and a kind of disgusted when i get very close to a guy

Gay or Bi guys do not feel weird or disgusted when they're around other guys, they like that stuff!

Listen, at 15, everything is sexually arousing, the chances of this signalling your gay are pretty slim. Our Serenity has dine a magnificent sticky which covers the 'Am I Gay?" question quite thoroughly. Go read it.

[Serenity]

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[The Entertainer]

I think it may be hormones. It sounds like it, anyway. If you find men attractive at puberty, dont worry, as with high levels of testostrone comes weird feelings and thoughts.

[NextToNormal]

you are 15...somethings will arouse you more than others just because. it may very well be hormones like others have said. i wouldnt worry about it yet. when the time is right, you will know if you are indeed gay or bi. there is nothing wrong with either orientation and you cant change your orientation. thats who you are...just like your genetic make-up is there for life, your sexuality is set too. you may feel one way or another now, but things will start to make more sense once your hormones balance themselves out.

[sin.city_chris17.x]

it can be hormones but i think you should just except it there is nothing wrong with that i used to think the same thing i still do

[chris__robin]

yeah there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi and it is a hard thing for a lot of people to accept and takes a while to be happy with yourself. it might just be a phase or it might not i dont know but you can't change who you are.