genderfluid?

[AdolescentBoyBlue]

so lately ive been thinking that i might be slightly gendefluid,i know im a guy,but sometimes i feel a bit more..girly i guess,sometimes ill act like your average guy, but somedays i feel like a lil eyeliner.maybe something colorful,and lately ive been wanting to wear some girls shirts theyre not that girly theyre just girl styled like their baggy shirts so yeah idk if im genderfluid or not

[CharlieHorse]

Hmm... that is pretty interesting. How long has this been going on? When did it start?

[Second Chance]

I am unclear on what your question is? Are you asking if it is all right if you enjoy acting outside of your gender? If so, then there is no set rule on what a guy or a girl must do or how they should dress. If you like dressing like a girl sometimes, then that is fine. Everything depends on how you're built and if it is even possible for you to fit into girls' clothing. With that being said, if you get comfort from dressing up girly or not being a typical guy, then who are we to judge you?

[AdolescentBoyBlue]

maybe last year and i just recently acknowledged it

[AdolescentBoyBlue]

I am unclear on what your question is? Are you asking if it is all right if you enjoy acting outside of your gender? If so, then there is no set rule on what a guy or a girl must do or how they should dress. If you like dressing like a girl sometimes, then that is fine. Everything depends on how you're built and if it is even possible for you to fit into girls' clothing. With that being said, if you get comfort from dressing up girly or not being a typical guy, then who are we to judge you?

i guess im asking if you think i might be slightly gender fluid

[ksdnfkfr]

Well what you described is basically a description of 'slightly gender fluid', so I would say yes.

[Lovelife090994]

so lately ive been thinking that i might be slightly gendefluid,i know im a guy,but sometimes i feel a bit more..girly i guess,sometimes ill act like your average guy, but somedays i feel like a lil eyeliner.maybe something colorful,and lately ive been wanting to wear some girls shirts theyre not that girly theyre just girl styled like their baggy shirts so yeah idk if im genderfluid or not

That is like the story of my life... But I'll say this. Only you can you and only you can do what makes you, yourself, comfortable. If you feel genderfluid, that is your decision. Yeah, you may face haters. But are they living your life? No, and they probably aren't living their's either if yours bothers their's.

[NeuroTiger]

I'll say YES.
Your description is typical for such a condition.

[Living For Love]

You're perhaps just a bit metrosexual.

[Second Chance]

Well what you described is basically a description of 'slightly gender fluid', so I would say yes.

I second this post, and you are most likely are gender fluid. As long as you don't have a problem with it, then I would not worry and just do your thing. It is not like you're hurting anyone by dressing up as a girl, and if being girly one day and being like a guy another is how you best express yourself, then knock yourself out.

[AdolescentBoyBlue]

I second this post, and you are most likely are gender fluid. As long as you don't have a problem with it, then I would not worry and just do your thing. It is not like you're hurting anyone by dressing up as a girl, and if being girly one day and being like a guy another is how you best express yourself, then knock yourself out.

thanks for the help :) ive been stuck on this for a while

[sqishy]

You could very well be gender-fluid, if you think you are and have proof. I know I am more feminine than 'normal' guys because I can get emotional much more easily, for example. I actually had this attraction towards a cyan jumper I found in school 2 weeks back, thought it was a guy's until I realised that it had girl'd deodorant on it. I just thought it would be perfect on me.
I'm definitely not gender-fluid, but I am certainly not all male. Which is awesome I guess :D.

[Luminous]

Maybe, you can call yourself whatever you want to. If you would rather be a 'girly guy' you could be. I think genderfluid is more that you slip back and forth between genders (as opposed to third gender). But if you feel like a guy, you just like some makeup and girly clothing, you may very well be metrosexual or just girly.

[Milo124]

I well know the pain of heart and soul of having to change back and forth, however, that is slowly becoming less and less of an occurrence, as I spend more and more of my life as the adult female that I am. Please look around, comment, and know that many like-minded people are here to help you.

[Harley Quinn]

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[JamesSuperBoy]

I think you should - every one should be able to explore how they feel and why. Have the space and freedom to express themselves - if that is selecting clothes or seeking identity whatever then good for you. As long as you are happy -