Just needing to vent

[West Coast Sheriff]

I found out the other day the girl I like is a cutter. As an ex-cutter myself, I just wanna help her. Sometimes I'll text her are you okay, she'll say I'm fine. I say are you sure. She says it's fine don't worry about it. But I'm worrying. I've began to actually care for her and I wanna know she's fine. I'm getting worried over this and I'm also scared ill relapse. That's all. Just needed to get these thoughts out of my head a little

[Castle of Glass]

if you like her, ask her to lunch or something, or date or what ever it is you kids do now a days. Get to know her and have her trust in you build. that way you can help her the most.

[Katiya]

I second castle of glass

[ksdnfkfr]

I know what you mean about fear of relapse. That's why I shy away from many cutting threads. But it probably doesn't happen that way.

[Mynick]

Mabybe you can make somekind of deal, like you stop asking how she is, but when se feels really bad she'll tell you. You would avoid always talking about cutting and whatnot.
Just show her how much she means to you and you do care for her. Good luck.

[Amazerful]

I found out the other day the girl I like is a cutter. As an ex-cutter myself, I just wanna help her. Sometimes I'll text her are you okay, she'll say I'm fine. I say are you sure. She says it's fine don't worry about it. But I'm worrying. I've began to actually care for her and I wanna know she's fine. I'm getting worried over this and I'm also scared ill relapse. That's all. Just needed to get these thoughts out of my head a little

someone really close to me cuts and the best way to help is just to make sure that they know someone truely cares about them, every time you see them check for new cuts and if you find any, sit down and find out what caused it that time so they know they always have someone to talk to about these things and over time they will start coming to talk to you first when they get the urge to cut

[Luminous]

Don't bug her, just be there for her. Always be a shoulder for her to cry on.