What should I do?

[Rexster]

i deleted this before but was asked to put it back. the short of it is, there is a halloween party i want to go to that all my friends are going to be at. my only way of getting there is my older bro. dad said if i go with him i can stay late. bro says only way i can ride with him is i let him and his gf dress me up as a cheerleaeder. this is same bro who teases me in front of his friends that i should have been a girl. my friends say do it. but i don't like the idea of dressing like a girl or being forced to do it by bro? dad is no help. he also told me it was just a halloween party. any suggestions?

[Living For Love]

Don't go, of course, everyone will make fun of you. It's just a stupid party, it's not a big deal. And, sorry to say, but you have really stupid brothers. They will just let you go if you dress up like a cheerleader!? That's really absurd! Is there anyway you can get there without your brothers or dad's help?

Someone on the other post gave you a really good advice. You should make something that has a really great impact on them. I don't really want to give you any stupid ideas, but big problems demand radical solutions. You can simulate some kind of suicide or something, or spend sometime of the day crying and let your dad see it, so you could tell him the reason for your crying is your brothers. Ask a friend you really trust for advice, too. This is some kind of thing that only people with your age understand, I think your dad will never fully understand the situation.

Or, you can try the other way around. Start to treat your brothers in a good way. When they arrive at home, give them a hug. Ask them about their lives, their studies, their work, their ridiculous girlfriends, maybe they will start to think about the way they've been treating you.

I know this all sounds really stupid, but you have to try all the options. Whatever happens, don't let this get the best of you. Think about the future, your revenge plans, your life as a successful man with 3 brothers who might someday need your help, and all the pleasure you will have when they're begging for your aid and you tell them politely to piss the hell off. Good luck.

[Camazotz]

Go to that party and be the best cheerleader that there's ever been.

You won't regret it. In a few years time you'll realize how funny the whole thing was and the amount of sociability you'll be able to gain from putting yourself out there for laughs.

You can simulate some kind of suicide or something...

Whatever you do, do not do this.

[ksdnfkfr]

That is a shame he has to be like that. I hope the way he has treated you fills him with regret when he finally grows up. He is trying to get sadistic satisfaction out of trying to publicly humiliate you. It is up to you to decide on how your friends will react to it. At the party I am going to I think everyone would find it hilarious in a good way. Last year a guy went as a bride and everyone loved it.

[Abyssal Echo]

It sucks that your Brother has to be that way. your dad is like no help at all. If it was me I wouldn't do it just because your bro will never let it go. If you can't get a ride with one of your friends I wouldn't go. Like Ezra said your friends will prob think its hilarious. Really its up to you what you want to do.

[Cygnus]

I'd say find a middle ground with your brother, say "no pictures and only you and your gf will be there", then I would totally do it.

[Luminous]

It is horrible how he is treating you. In your position, I would wear the costume and just go for it. Don't let anyone bully you, get all 'girly' and just be like 'I was like totes made to be a cheerleader'. Nobody will expect that and you might make some friends, and some peace with your brother and his friends. I know it's not ideal, but if you want to go to the party I would say this is the way to do it. You could take the costume off when you get there but you are more likely to be tormented by your brother, and he might even leave without you later on.

[dsi411]

I'd say find a middle ground with your brother, say "no pictures and only you and your gf will be there", then I would totally do it.

Why would only his brother and gf be at a Halloween party?

And Rexster, I suggest that you don't go. Don't humiliate yourself. Maybe there's another party that a friend can take you to?

[Katiya]

Your brother sucks.

But you have two options. Don't go and maintain your dignity. Or go and make it funny! Act hilarious pose as a girl to get people to laugh. It has to be genuine from you though or it will be people laughing at you because some one made you dress up like a girl.

Admit it was your brothers Idea and you decided to do it after all to be entertaining. I know guys who do silly things like that to be funny and it is FUNNY!!! lol But you have to be comfortable to do it.

Its your choice ;)

[JamesSuperBoy]

i deleted this before but was asked to put it back. the short of it is, there is a halloween party i want to go to that all my friends are going to be at. my only way of getting there is my older bro. dad said if i go with him i can stay late. bro says only way i can ride with him is i let him and his gf dress me up as a cheerleaeder. this is same bro who teases me in front of his friends that i should have been a girl. my friends say do it. but i don't like the idea of dressing like a girl or being forced to do it by bro? dad is no help. he also told me it was just a halloween party. any suggestions?

If you have felt able to ask your friends then I think you should really think about this whole deal.

[Soulless]

Don't go, have some self-respect.

[Wyatt 13]

Do whatever makes u feel comfortable. You are not the clown dude you are 13 and they are older, If I were you I would like to know the real intention of my bro.

[kylem1229]

Well, your opinion is probably different...but if I had that chance, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Come on, a cheerleader? That would be frickin amazing. Imaging all the laughs...best time in my life.