Please help

[Empire3]

So i have a best friend called Theö and believe me I would do ANYTHING for him. And I mean even taking a bullet! But for some reason he is really cold with me lately

For example during the holidays when I text him and asked to hang out he is like : CAN U PLEASE LET ME HAVE MY HOLIDAYS IN PEACE? !!

This is really affecting my morale!

What should I do?

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Go over to his house and talk. One of the few options you really have. Tell him how it made you feel when he replied like that and tell him how much of a friend you consider him.

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Family & Friends.

[sqishy]

Go over to his house and talk. One of the few options you really have. Tell him how it made you feel when he replied like that and tell him how much of a friend you consider him.

I agree.

[JamesSuperBoy]

So i have a best friend called Theö and believe me I would do ANYTHING for him. And I mean even taking a bullet! But for some reason he is really cold with me lately

For example during the holidays when I text him and asked to hang out he is like : CAN U PLEASE LET ME HAVE MY HOLIDAYS IN PEACE? !!

This is really affecting my morale!

What should I do?

well for one you could just ignore - easy

or think maybe something is not right for him - either his life stuff or your friendship with him - either ways you might want to ask him and maybe best in person -

[ksdnfkfr]

So i have a best friend called Theö and believe me I would do ANYTHING for him. And I mean even taking a bullet! But for some reason he is really cold with me lately

For example during the holidays when I text him and asked to hang out he is like : CAN U PLEASE LET ME HAVE MY HOLIDAYS IN PEACE? !!

This is really affecting my morale!

What should I do?

It could be in that instant he was going through a hard time.
I love my best very much. But he is very persistent (which is a good thing in my case in being autistic because it maintains our friendship) but it also annoys the hell out of me sometimes. Is your friend the sort who keeps to himself a lot?

Anyways, talk to him about it. If doing so breaks the friendship, it was already cracked.

[NeuroTiger]

So i have a best friend called Theö and believe me I would do ANYTHING for him. And I mean even taking a bullet! But for some reason he is really cold with me lately

For example during the holidays when I text him and asked to hang out he is like : CAN U PLEASE LET ME HAVE MY HOLIDAYS IN PEACE? !!

This is really affecting my morale!

What should I do?


Maybe he is going through some difficult times. It happens.
He want some space to breathe.
Just give him time.
If you are always nice to him, he will surely come back.
After all, in almost all relationships, there are ups and downs.

[Katiya]

You have 2 options. Go over and visit him and ask what's bothering him about you texting and explain that the message hurt your feelings.
Or leave him alone for a while and ask him later.


Reminds me of my mentor i met at a church with a friend.... He and his family agreed to help me out in my life with wwhatever I needed. Then out of the blue they blocked my calls. I thought it was a mistake and I went over to see them. They said to leave them alone and I was a monster. I was so confused I did not reply, I just went home and cryed. It really hurt so bad. These people were closer to me than my real family. Come to find out later I t was rumors that spoiled it. A lady at their church told them a really awful lie about me when I was gone and scared them. If they see me on the road they imidiatly pull over and then around. Talk about WIERD!!
They were real religious, never bothered me but guess i learnt my lesson about religious people...I'm an atheist stronger than ever now lol. Idk y but religious people can b crazy round these parts!

[Katiya]

Some friendships just fall apart too. That could be. I was friends with many that ditched me for the in crowd. It could be anything, he just needs piece and qquie, might be having a hard time with something personal.

If you have always been nice its likely that he will come back. But if he doesn't let it go, best not to ask about it as most people will never tell you why they ditdch you.

[Empire3]

Leave him alone.

Thanks for such a detailed and reasonful answer!! How can I ever thank u

[Amazerful]

Maybe you were more invested in the friendship than he was