Painfull part?

[Derryck]

I was on a thread about a girl's first time having sex or whatever, and I heard about bringing a hairbrush is a good idea bc of a "painful/bloody part". I MAY be wrong here, but I think the purpose of having sex is for the pleasure not "OMG make it stop! I'm Dying I can't take it! The pain!!". What if I told you that I am very confused and would like to know what this really horrible part is for females?

[LouBerry]

If a girl's hymen is still intact, often the first few times are painful. Not always, as you will find from some girls on here, but that's usually the case.

Aside from the pain, there will likely be blood. This is just like that pain, it ranges from none to "holy crap, it's the red sea". And again, it's likely to happen the first time, but just for a few minutes, and shouldn't be that bad, not like getting your period or anything like that.

After the first few times, if you even experience these things at all, you'll be good to go.

[DerBear]

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[Dennis Chaney]

Will still saying the hymen is intact, which in a virgin it isn't always still intact, because it can be torn numberous ways such as fingering or using toys. When I girl with her hymen intact has sex for the first time it is torn loose, which in turn causes the pain and bleeding, the bleeding shouldn't be that bad, I lost my virginity to another virgin and there was barely any blood and the pain wasn't that bad she claims.

[Amazerful]

The hurting isn't all because hymen but more so because of the stretching of the 'girl part'