How to ask a girl out

[kylem]

Being really awkward around girls when I see them forreal, when I see a girl I really like and want to ask if she wants to hang, I get all shy and insecure and start to freak. What's the best way to get over this so I don't come across as a loser. Plus I don't take rejection really well, makes me more insecure and wonder if its something about me and if its my looks or whatever :what:

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[WeAreOneRepublic]

In no way does it have to be formal, if you can manage to strike up a conversation with her then that is your ticket to ask her to hang with you sometime. At the end of the conversation just ask if she wants to hang out some time and then organize the rest over Facebook or whatever. I know its hard and you are afraid of rejection but since it is part of life you need to be strong about it and ask her. Not everyone is a yes-man

[Mynick]

Just remember they are humans too! Go and say Hi, would you like to go to ----, i know it sounds stupid but it's that simple.

[Cece14]

Im the same way, but with guys, just be yourself and ask

[kylem1229]

Pretty much just say hi, start a conversation, and ask. Simpler than you think it is.

[CuteFunSmartGirl]

Just ask!

[sqishy]

I guess just starting a conversation is the key, introduce yourself. If it gets awkward (the nerves could do that), then pass that off with humour or something. I'm sure the girl will understand :D.

[Luminous]

Lol not like I would know. I guess start with 'hi'.

[Amazerful]

Mostly when I talk to someone guy/girl I ask them to just tell me about themselves because thats the best way to find out what they want you to know about them from the start and you can see if you have any common interests

[Jordyy]

I'm a shy guy aswell,


Just go up to them and say something like "Hey, This movie is on friday, It looks pretty good, Wanna go see it together?"

[Cygnus]

Just txt her

No, doing it in person is better than texting.

If you are actually determined to do it you will end up asking her out. In fact all you should do is literally walk up to her and say "Hey, I was wondering if you want to go out sometime" or something along those lines, its really quick and easy.

[dsi411]

Say "hello there!"

[highschool]

just be casual and play it cool

[kylem]

just be casual and play it cool

that's the hard part is being casual and playing it cool, I get like stupid nervous sometimes.:whoops:

[AdrianField]

Dude just go for it my friend has had 3 gf's and he's still insecure. When a girl lets you down you just go on to the next one. Strike up conversation then be like hey I was wondering if you wanna go on a date blah blah blah. Make sure she is around people so the likelyhood of her saying no is lower and then make her warm up to you on the date :) plus your stupid selfie shows me that you will be fine with a girl just do something bout the hair
(20 plus girls dated)