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AbyssalLight7
October 7th, 2013, 11:20 PM
I've always thought of myself as strait, I like girls. The idea of something like anal (with either gender) just feels wrong to me (nothing against any who like that, just for me) but I have tried mutual masturbation w/a guy and really liked it, if I come across a "pic" online of a hot guy I think it's hot, also lesbian and gay porn don't do it for me, only girl x guy with the exception of seeing a male jerk off. I thought I was strait but I have some doubts, any opinions or advice?

Alex_3869
October 7th, 2013, 11:52 PM
I think your curious, depending how long you have been feeling this way

AbyssalLight7
October 7th, 2013, 11:54 PM
I think your curious, depending how long you have been feeling this way

Slightly for a while, it's been a more active though now for about 4 months or so.

ksdnfkfr
October 7th, 2013, 11:57 PM
A lot of us seem to be going through this. I know I am. The advice that I am following is to not be in a rush to label yourself because there is a lot of topsy-turvy before you reach a certain age and things sort themselves out. And not many people are 100% pure straight. Lots of straight guys enjoy mutual masturbation. There is a big difference between simply getting off with a buddy and being romantically involved.

Alex_3869
October 7th, 2013, 11:58 PM
Slightly for a while, it's been a more active though now for about 4 months or so.

You may be bi curious, or you could be bi, only you can determine that, it could be a phase as well, but again, it's you who determines that. However, at the moment I wouldnt say your completely straight.

Amazerful
October 10th, 2013, 09:08 PM
I went through the same thing with girls but in the end I was only visually attracted to them and not physically, maybe thats what you are too

Luminous
October 10th, 2013, 09:53 PM
Yes you do sound bi-curious.

AbyssalLight7
October 13th, 2013, 07:06 PM
I guess being mildly bi-curious would make sense, thanks for the help.