Old times....

[Polski101]

I've been away this weekend with my friends. A few months back I was seeing a girl and ended up in a sexual relationship with her (I was with her 20 months) and while I was away she came and stayed over. I came back yesterday and she stayed another night but it felt so awkward but I'm in another relationship now and we were friends with benefits for a while after breaking up.

I want to talk with her about the weekend but don't want to go back to old times. What should I do?


Sorry if there are at mistakes, I wrote this on my iPod

[NeuroTiger]

I hate friends with benefits...it's not the correct way in my view.
Well, just explain to her calmly about your situation. You need to use tact to get out.

[Lost in the Echo]

P101 :arrow: Relationships & Dating
This is more relevant there.

[Mynick]

As Tomtiger10 said explain her everything, you need to talk with her.

[1_21Guns]

Just tell her you're not interested in going down that road again to clear the air as others have said, calmly so it doesn't come across the wrong way :P

[Polski101]

Sorry, I never knew it was in the wrong one but thanks for moving it anyway. How shall I speak to her, she lives about 40 minutes away from me on the bus or shall I just explain on the phone? For those who don't agree with it, not sticking myself up but it just sons times is good when you first break up.

[sqishy]

Sorry, I never knew it was in the wrong one but thanks for moving it anyway. How shall I speak to her, she lives about 40 minutes away from me on the bus or shall I just explain on the phone? For those who don't agree with it, not sticking myself up but it just sons times is good when you first break up.

Your proximity to her will make talking easier. Speak your mind to her.:)