im so confused :/

[mixedupfool]

ok, sooooo,

i absolutely positively really really really really really like this girl,

everyone says we look cute together, they talk about how we flirt and everything,

everyone says its obvious i like her, and some people say she likes me


but last month, talked to one of her friends, who's like a sister to me, so i mean i can beleive her, she said that the girl i like said that she "cant see herself going out with me, because we're too good of friends"
and i got on another friend's myspace and asked her about me,
and shes like "oh i didnt know it looks like we flirt so much, i dont mean to make it look like that, but i dont want to lead him on, i cant see myself going out with him"

but that was about a month ago, and now people are asking if we're going out or anything cause we've been talkin for a while, and it sure looks like it.


i dont know what to think, it bothers me a lot

any suggestions?

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

it sounds like she doesnt want to date, and that everyone on the OUTSIDE of the friendship thinks you are dating because you are such good friends. i wouldnt risk it.

[Gumleaf]

i wouldn't ask her out, it sounds she wants to enjoy your friendship more then a romantic relationship. but sometimes close friendships like this can be better then a short lived romantic relationship anyways.

[cj4976]

yea dude asking her out mihgt not be the best thing after hearing that. Ive had similar situations and mosly when they say your too good of friends they wouldnt try to take a chance risking the friendship.

[thesphinx]

Well first of all your friends may not be correct about what she thinks of you, if you really like her go for it the worst that could happen is she says no and I doubt the friendship would be ruined then.