I Just Thought I Should Say...

[Mob Boss]

I am completely and totally lesbian. *breathes* I've only come out to one person so far who I knew would be supportive and just freaking amazing about this and giving me advice, VT's very own Kryptonite. I know it seems late in the game at 19 to be coming out, but for most of my life I thought I was bi and never liked labels or society's need to give others one. I've even ranted about this very topic, only to realize I was completely wrong. I don't need a label for society or others, but for my own identity and to know who I am. Is that to say if I ever randomly fell head over heels for a dude one day that I'd repress those feelings because of a label? Not at all. It just means this is what feels right and is who I am. I won't try to change that or be ashamed of it. Also, wanted to seriously, seriously thank VT because before I joined I would have never been comfortable enough in my own skin to ever say what I just did.
I'm seriously surprised people on here that also follow me on Tumblr have not assumed this yet.


And can I just clarify something? Lesbian and Gays do not want to jump the bones of every person of the same gender. That is the most ignorant, conceited thing I've ever discovered about all of this. :p We, just like everyone else, have types and like people based on personality and not just gender -- so don't flatter yourself if you think that way. I just wanted everyone to know that being a lesbian doesn't mean I've lost the ability to act like a civil human being and keep it in my pants.



http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_md4mz0I1BT1qh2o7zo1_500.gif.... Sorry, I seriously had to.


Tis the beginning of the coming out process.

[Harley Quinn]

http://pixel.nymag.com/imgs/daily/vulture/2013/03/07/07-lucille-gene.o.jpg/a_560x0.jpg

I'm so proud of you!

#teamlesbian

[conniption]

Loving that Mean Girls gif :D! Anyway, congrats on being a lesbian...?

[Mob Boss]

image (http://pixel.nymag.com/imgs/daily/vulture/2013/03/07/07-lucille-gene.o.jpg/a_560x0.jpg)

I'm so proud of you!

#teamlesbian
http://cdn.crushable.com/files/2012/09/jennifer-lawrence-gang-sign.gif

Loving that Mean Girls gif :D! Anyway, congrats on being a lesbian...?

Thanks, homes. I wonder if I can find a hallmark card with that sentiment on it.

[teen.jpg]

Aww congrats!

[West Coast Sheriff]

You're a great person no matter what sexuality you are. Labels are just labels. It's a persons character that's really important. And you have great character. You're one of the kindest, coolest people I've ever talked too and that's what matters.

[CharlieHorse]

I'm so proud of you Bridge :) I can't imagine how much courage it takes to do something like this. :)
*hug*
<3
Remember, I'm always here for you if you need anything. :D

[Lovelife090994]

Congrats! Must feel nice to be sure of yourself! I wish you the best of luck!

[Mob Boss]

Well look at this love fest going on. Geez, should have came out sooner:P. Thank you all so much for being sweet and supportive.

[CharlieHorse]

Well look at this love fest going on. Geez, should have came out sooner:P. Thank you all so much for being sweet and supportive.

We'll always support you Bridge :) <3

[conniption]

Thanks, homes. I wonder if I can find a hallmark card with that sentiment on it.

Doubt it, ain't nobody as deep as me.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

that gif <3 <3
no but omg Bridgette congrats <3

[Emerald Dream]

:hug: Bridgette

Congrats...you're fantastic hon.

[PinkFloyd]

I know I'm a little late here, but seriously.. congrats! It must've been hard to do this! :hug:

[Mynick]

I'm late to the party as well but congrats! Must feel good come out And your text is spot on, really lovely thoughts

[1_21Guns]

congrats on coming out ;D

[kylem1229]

Congratulations

[Abyssal Echo]

Awww Big :hug: Congrats on coming out I know it took a lot of courage. What can I say your an awesome person. I'd say welcome to my world but you're already a very big and loved part it.

[sqishy]

I am completely and totally lesbian. *breathes* I've only come out to one person so far who I knew would be supportive and just freaking amazing about this and giving me advice, VT's very own Kryptonite. I know it seems late in the game at 19 to be coming out, but for most of my life I thought I was bi and never liked labels or society's need to give others one. I've even ranted about this very topic, only to realize I was completely wrong. I don't need a label for society or others, but for my own identity and to know who I am. Is that to say if I ever randomly fell head over heels for a dude one day that I'd repress those feelings because of a label? Not at all. It just means this is what feels right and is who I am. I won't try to change that or be ashamed of it. Also, wanted to seriously, seriously thank VT because before I joined I would have never been comfortable enough in my own skin to ever say what I just did.
I'm seriously surprised people on here that also follow me on Tumblr have not assumed this yet.


And can I just clarify something? Lesbian and Gays do not want to jump the bones of every person of the same gender. That is the most ignorant, conceited thing I've ever discovered about all of this. :p We, just like everyone else, have types and like people based on personality and not just gender -- so don't flatter yourself if you think that way. I just wanted everyone to know that being a lesbian doesn't mean I've lost the ability to act like a civil human being and keep it in my pants.



image (http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_md4mz0I1BT1qh2o7zo1_500.gif).... Sorry, I seriously had to.


Tis the beginning of the coming out process.


I really agree with your second paragraph; for me I find around 2% of every guy attractive in some way. The other 98% are what I call the 'neutrals' :P.

Best of luck in coming out. Things will change for the better. My life changed when it started.
*HUGS*
:D

[Mob Boss]

Thank you all so, so much. It seriously means a lot and makes this process that much easier. :3

[Luminous]

YAYYY!!
Congrats for taking this step. It's really hard to do but it gets easier from here.