I cant stop!

[lizzybear]

I try a lot of things all kinds of methods but I always end up cutting again. My friends are scared of me now so I cut more and more. I want to just die sometimes. I need advice please someone. I just need someone like me. That I can talk to about all of this. I cant even talk to my mom anymore she gave up. Im alone.:(

[Dennis Chaney]

Well I cut myself for 7 years so ill try my best to help you dear, people use cutting as an outlet to their pain, because that is what some people think is the only way to feel okay. But once you realize the fact that the more you cut, the more scars you will have, which in turn will probably make you more depressed and cause you to cut even more, that you have to find something that you enjoy that can keep your mind busy, mine is writing poetry, playing video games and cooking, which all three keep my mind focused elsewhere and keeps my hands busy. Also you need to look inside of yourself and find things that you do like about yourself, as an example, I like the way I treat others and my personality, so instead of always focusing on the negative things about myself or what others say, I say to myself I know I treat others amazingly and I know my heart and mind are in the right place so who are they to judge me? Also talking to others who are around your age that have the same problems can also help you a lot, I wish you the best of luck, if you need to talk just message me on my visitor section on my profile or comment back. I hope this helps you in someway or another.

[Despot]

2 days ago i tried to cut because i see alot of people do so i wanted to try it out.. but i don't like it. I recommend you not to do it because you will feel so depressed by doing it and it will get things worse. Find a friend irl or online play some games chat etc. and whenever you think about it just say your self "if i do it i am a weak person". I hope you will stop because it doesn't do any good.

[iHelp]

Dear, you are worth it. You matter! And you are very unique. People who try to be normal and become normal are the people who have given up their uniqueness by being like everyone else. You don't have to go with the flow of this world! You are made in your own likeness. The world doesn't hate you dear, you are the one making all these thoughts. But to your other questions like how to stop cutting I have no answers. Because I myself am facing the same situation. But don't you end it just yet. You still have more to live for. You are more than every mistakes you've made in your life. O how I wish I could meet you.

[Mynick]

You are not alone we are here for you! You'll find a lot of people in the same situation as you, and we will always talk with you!
As Dennis said cutting only makes things worst, a lot worst.
Check this thread. (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=190748) You'll find a lot of ways to stop cutting.

[asbel_garcia123]

I'm facing this same problem. The cutting is taking over my life and getting harder to control. I cut TWICE yesterday, in less than 2 hrs. That's very rare for me. That's how I know it's getting stronger and stronger.

[Versae]

I don't know what to say to you but just know that you're not alone in this. I'm like you too. I don't really know how to stop but I know that I can do it. For now, I haven't had a day clean yet but I know I can do it. Everyone can. Just know that sometimes, people whom you expected to help you won't always be there so you're gonna have to learn how to try and save yourself. I hope you survive this.

[Animelover16]

girl...you're not alone.the whole vt users are here..,don't be sad much okay?