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ClassyBlasian
October 6th, 2013, 04:21 PM
Been with a guy for about a year. We had the BEST relationship.
Out of no where broke up with me because he wants more stability with his friends and is also too busy. He claims he would make a bad boyfriend because he wouldn't have time for me. He still loves and cares for me.
I still get so jealous seeing him with other people or even just talking to girls it's terrible. And I want to always talk to him but I usually have to stop myself from being too clingy. I just miss him and it's been 4 months and I'm still not over it. Don't know if I should keep my distance or remain close friends. I just really want him back and I want to convince him! This really sucks because it's literally killing me how much I want to be with him. I've tried over and over to get him to come back but he keeps saying he wants to but he cant. My friends claim that if he really loved me he'd make time for me but he makes it seem like it's not like that. Help me :(

Cece14
October 6th, 2013, 05:30 PM
I agree with your friends, if a guy truly loves you, he would show it and make time for you

Living For Love
October 7th, 2013, 10:49 AM
Your friends are right in a certain aspect, but I guess he made that decision because he knows that a relationship must have communication between the two parts, and he just didn't want to be your boyfriend and not spend anytime with you. It's hard to tell whether he still likes you or not, but I guess you need to move on, stick with your friends, and consider him a good friend too, and think twice if he decides to be your boyfriend again.

WeAreOneRepublic
October 7th, 2013, 07:26 PM
As the above people have said, your friends are right in one point. Now since you broke up don't cut all the strings, stay good friends. Trust me on this, removing him is a bad idea, that happened to me and took probably 6 months to bring it back to where we are good friends again.

Luminous
October 7th, 2013, 07:41 PM
I also agree with your friends. If he really did love you then he would make the time for you. Even if it is limited it is still something.