Unable to obtain an erection.

[The Eraser]

My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time a few nights ago, and I wasn't able to obtain a proper erection until she performed oral sex. I've always wondered how guys could have a problem with this, until I found myself in the situation. I had no problem once the the intercourse actually began, but I've never had difficulty getting it going before. Is this normal?

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Its something most guys go through at least once in their lives, Its normal. If It happens often though, you may want to see a doctor

[Dddtx]

yea same thing happens to me bro. Just ask for head before and dat should get u hard... but to top it off also get hgead afterwards.. works fo me

[byee]

Although erection is a physiological response to erotic stimulation, there's a large psychological part to it. You have to be relaxed, and it doesn't sound like you were. Afterall, it was your first time with her, you might have been nervous.

It takes time to get prepared mentally for sex, it's not always like it is in the movies, where we guys should be able to perfrom at the drop of a hat, all the time, every time. Relax, take your time, maybe wait until you're more comfortable doing this very intimate thing with someone new. it's a big step.

And, please, say you were wearing a condom.

[Antares]

Yes it is quite common. I have heard alot of stories similar to this. It seems like just a visual isnt good enough when you are actually...well you know...so its pretty normal. you should not worry.

[The Eraser]

Well, I just had amazing sex with absolutely no problem. I guess it must've been the nerves from the first time. And yes, I made sure to use a condom this time. Thanks for the replies.

[Gumleaf]

problem solved!

locking.