Boyfriends bestfriend hates me

[beebs]

Ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now and our relationship is going great. But theres one slight issue.

His bestfriend (who is female) doesnt like me, its pretty obvious. When we all hang out together shes civil to me and seems to like me, but then online she talks about, makes comments about me, and i just dont think its very fair.

Because if she was anyone else i would have confronted her about it, but because shes my boyfriends bestfriend i want to remain civil with her. Im not saying i want to be best friends with her, i just want us to be able to hang out without me feeling hated.

Ive heard all the stuff about, oh you dont need to be friends with his friends, but I want to be. As she is also dating one of my bestfriends and I want to be able to meet up as a group without be feeling hated or awkward.

Does anyone have any advice for me? I want to confront her but I dont want to anger her even more. Im not worried about her saying things to my boyfriend because i know he will stick with me no matter what. I just want to feel liked when hanging around with her.

Thanks for any help

[Blood]

A situation really similar to this one happened to me recently. I confronted him about, asked him what exactly his problem with me was, and then told him that since we shared mutual friends, could we at least try to get along when we're around each other? If worked, and as of right now we're on ok terms. Maybe you should try this? Just keep in mind that you probably won't be best friends with this girl, but at least try to get talking to her. Also, have you spoken to your boyfriend about this?

[beebs]

i may try that, i just dont want to make her dislike me more, i dont even know if she realises im aware that she dislikes me. and ive mentioned that i know she dislikes me, but i havent told him how much it affects and upsets me

[Living For Love]

I guess you should tell her that, although you may not like eachother very much, you could at least get along well just to respect your boyfriend, which is her bestfriend. If it doesn't work, tell your boyfriend. He has probably noticed that something in not right between you too, and you should probably mention that to him, but don't tell him to go talk to her directly, or she will probably get mad at him. Tell your boyfriend to tell her that it would be really great if you two were fine with eachother. As she is his best friend, she can take that in consideration, because it's not coming from you, but from him, someone she trusts on.