Horny at bad times

[EVW875]

I find myself getting really turned on at random times like in the middle of lessons or when im out with friends/family, I tend to get really wet too which is a problem. Any advice? Thanks everyone

[Mariebme]

You just have to roll with it. Try thinking about gross stuff :P It will probably pass with time. It might have to do with knowing you shouldn't be horny, so that somehow excites you.

[anyone50]

It happens you just have to learn to deal with it. try concentrating more on your lesson

[Amazerful]

There is honestly nothing you can do about it, its just a part of life, it happens to the best of us

[Beachgirl1]

Masturbate more often.

[Luminous]

I get that too.. thinking about my grandparents having sex usually helps. It's disgusting and hilarious at the same time.

[TinyDancer]

Wearing a thin liner can be a life-saver too.

[LilAllyJ]

I go through the same thing. I find myself wanting to find somewhere to sneak away and "take care of it".. lol. I can't tell you how many times I've cum in a public bathroom just to try to make it go away. Of course that really only makes it worse.

[bethgirl1986]

I go through the same thing. I find myself wanting to find somewhere to sneak away and "take care of it".. lol. I can't tell you how many times I've cum in a public bathroom just to try to make it go away. Of course that really only makes it worse.

i've done this too

[martogogo]

it's ok :)

[emilysut]

I am ALWAYS HORNY, I wear liners a lot to keep it from showing.

[Sandra Main]

It seems like i get horny at the wrong time and the wrong place.
Right when i can't do nothing about it.
Just my luck.

[CheekyLinda]

It has happened to me too, it's annoying to not be able to do anything about it :/ Just concéntrate in what you're doing until you can relieve yourself from it

[ClaireMarie]

I'm ALWAYS horny, so it's often bad time... But I don't care ! Enjoy !

[Ihaveagun]

Not much one can do. I'm horny more or less 24/7, so I'm getting used to it. xD

[ShelleyCA]

i've done this too

Ive done the same thing...glad Im not the only one ;)

[bethgirl1986]

Ive done the same thing...glad Im not the only one ;)

Good to know we're not alone :)

[hoboliz]

Yeah you're definitely not alone. All. The. Time! It's OK. You either ignore it or take care of it.

[narutofangirl]

Its the same as men getting hard ons
It happens you just gotta try and ignore it.

[blueeyes99]

During class is the worst time to feel horny but happens to me all the time.

[CutieHoney]

Well if I am horny - and I'm often horny - I usually just give in and do it.
Hell, when I'm in the middle of class I just ask if I can go to the toilet or just do it in class - if possible.

[becca07]

Well if I am horny - and I'm often horny - I usually just give in and do it.
Hell, when I'm in the middle of class I just ask if I can go to the toilet or just do it in class - if possible.

That's brave and one way to take care of it. I unfortunately don't feel to comfortable doing it in the school bathroom(unless I know for sure there is no1 in there...still i dont want to any1 to hear) I usually just try sometimes to sit with my foot under me on the chair or cross my legs so that my clit gets some attention/relief....most times it backfires and wants even more attention!/fully taken care of:P

[Wildsassygirl]

I get in history class all of the time, its mostly boys in the class

[cherylcherylX2]

Happens to everyone, don't sweat it! ^^

[Sarah_Ward]

hehe it happens to me too and i have to wear a liner too, but mostly i think of Mr Potts our geography teacher, one look at him would put you off sex for life!! hehe!! :O)

[mermaidfairy]

It totally does suck!

Maybe since you get too wet you can wear something like a pantyliner to prevent your underwear from getting too much of it, but I think that getting horny, especially at random times is a part of puberty and is something normal! Try to ride it out to the best of your ability, and when you get home you can take care of the urge.

[Amanda_]

Happens to me too a lot. Tried doing it in a public bathroom to make it go away but I was too nervous someone would hear to enjoy it. Now I just wait to get home and go crazy :P but its not easy.

[abp1999]

Lol it happens. If I'm at school I just find a place and do it. Same with at home though if I am w/ people I really can't

[lizziebeth]

It happens to everyone.

I'm kinda a chicken, so I don't "take care of it" at school. I just put up with it, as hard as that can be.

[jenna123]

this happens to me often, you just have to learn to deal with it, or masturbate more often so you dont feel that horny the next day.

[rociomx]

I tried to think of something else.

[Zsofia]

The worst thing is if you start doing it in a school toilet, it will get worse and even thinking of the possibility you could go out and do it again... would turn me on. But sometimes I can't help it. And there is a nice technique if you can keep your expressions neutral. Crossing my legs very close, and start rythmical pushing... do not need touch it at all. Perfect on bus or public transport, especially when it's cold and you can put your hoods on closing eyes :)

[jessicaann]

I just think about how good its going to be when I can finally get alone

[Sminkelaks]

Happens a lot. I think it's psychological. You know you can't masturbate when you're in middle of class, or being with friends etc., and voila. The horniness comes. :P

[satarra3180]

Happens a lot. I think it's psychological. You know you can't masturbate when you're in middle of class, or being with friends etc., and voila. The horniness comes. :P

I agree with this. It's like we fuel our own fire and sometimes it makes the orgasm later that much better.

[Amsey]

This happens to me too (maybe a little to often hahaha) i think its normal, finding some where to "take care" of it or trying to ignore it usually helps me, and for the wetness some other girls on here said to me about a similar problem just bring extra pants with you (I keep a spare pair in my bag now) hope that helps :)

[Sarah_Ward]

Oh i so know what you mean Emma and I dont know what starts it, probably our hormones i guess. It happens to me and im not really thinking of sex at the time and you know what... it happens most when im just about to start my period or m have just finished for about 3 day after then it dies down a bit till im getting close to my period again....
I don't think there's much we can do about it too so yeah.. just go with it and have some pads to put on if it gets really bad :O)

[ArtemisLianCrock]

I have this problem in church because it goes for 2 and 1/2 hours.

[Lisa12]

i get horny in class alot so i wait for the end of class and masturbate in the bathroom

[NotShortButFunsized]

Have you tried going to the bathroom? That tends to kill off some angst for me sometimes and it's a good excuse to wipe the wetness and clean up a bit. It's pretty normal to feel like that though, everyone feels like that. so try to ignore it, and if you can't ignore it enjoy it instead lol

[Shailene]

same problem - usually try to find the closest washroom asap :)

[watermelon_pineapple]

Sadly there is noting you can do about it there is just something the excites you and makes you honry and wet you get have to learn to deal with it

[Lisa R]

I have always had this problem too.
I wait untill i have some me time to take care of business and then I'm good to go.

[vbsocc97]

I get that too.. thinking about my grandparents having sex usually helps. It's disgusting and hilarious at the same time.

I do the same thing! think about something sexual that's a total turn off.. usually helps a lot. I've gotten really wet before in school for no reason at all, just gotta role with it. It happens to everyone though, ever wonder why some girls are always crossing their legs over and over or some guys are readjusting their pants/shorts all the time? It happens to all of us.

[becca07]

I do the same thing! think about something sexual that's a total turn off.. usually helps a lot. I've gotten really wet before in school for no reason at all, just gotta role with it. It happens to everyone though, ever wonder why some girls are always crossing their legs over and over or some guys are readjusting their pants/shorts all the time? It happens to all of us.

haha! This is sooo true. Trying to think of non-sexual things is a good technique to quell the onset of the horneees. And yes, I am a big fan of the leg cross...it helps with the figityness that comes with being turned on.

The worse part tho is the timing like you said during class... it sux cuz we only get like 10 min between classes to get to our lockers and go to our next class at my HS....

so if I am really horny and wet getting a quick orgasm in the bathroom can be tricky, especially if others are around. And if I do opt for the bathroom i want to make sure i have enough time to rub out a good one/clean up or else it will just make the situation worse and il be that much more horny in my next class lol

[vickilynn]

Last week, I was wearing a short skirt. I so horny in class. I had to do something. Since I never wear underwear it was easier to hike my skirt up and use my fingers. I was in the back. I had to finish off in the bathroom. I don't know why I was so wet that day.

[sweet_girl24au]

It happens pretty often to me and I go to the bathroom, but I struggle to be quiet. Once I start thinking about mbating i usually cant stop myself getting worked up and I have to sort it out

[clairey]

I'm so glad I'm not the only one this happens to. Sometimes the feelings come out of nowhere and are so strong they take over and I can't concentrate on anything else!

[KaraaaHope]

Gosh, I get so wet a lot and it doesn't matter who I'm with or where I am or anything. Its ridiculous sometimes and so hard to control. :/ I'm not gonna lie its frustrating when it happens and I can't do anything about it like in class or whatever. Gahhh. Kind of makes you think about how many other people around you in class are going through the same thing and no one just ever mentions it or anything.

[Elvalight]

I find I only deal with down there situations at certain parts of the month, usually right before my period. If you are still new to puberty, you may have this problem for a while, before it gets into more of a routine. I'd suggest buying pantiliners for days like that. They work like pads, but you can wear them just whenever and they're more comfy.
I also find my "girls" sometimes decide to make a guest appearance at random, and often bad, times. If you deal with this( especially in cold places!) wear a padded bra. The best part about being female is, hehe, you can basically think of anything that turns you on and nobody will suspect a thing mwahahahaha

[JessBajic]

this use to happen all the time with me, i fount that masturbating at night when everybody is alseep was a great help for me

[becca07]

It happens pretty often to me and I go to the bathroom, but I struggle to be quiet. Once I start thinking about mbating i usually cant stop myself getting worked up and I have to sort it out

This is so true for me. And the thing about when i get turned on at school is that it seems to be more intense because in the back of my mind i know that relief isn't just a comfortable walk up to the old bedroom at a moments notice....its more mechanical if that makes any sense at school or public.

Like when it happens at school I dont have time to 'play', tease myself really or mess around at all...its more like I have maybe 5-10 min max to sort it all out. Go to the bathroom as quick as possible, hopefully find a stall with no girls around, pull my panties down and just rub as quick and quietly as i can til I get a O.

[jenna123]

This is so true for me. And the thing about when i get turned on at school is that it seems to be more intense because in the back of my mind i know that relief isn't just a comfortable walk up to the old bedroom at a moments notice....its more mechanical if that makes any sense at school or public.

Like when it happens at school I dont have time to 'play', tease myself really or mess around at all...its more like I have maybe 5-10 min max to sort it all out. Go to the bathroom as quick as possible, hopefully find a stall with no girls around, pull my panties down and just rub as quick and quietly as i can til I get a O.

but dont you find it almost impossible to find a bathroom with no girls around and to keep at least a bit quiet. Im not the most noisy of girls but still, when i orgasm i make quite some noise that can easily be heard if there is people around. At school i go to the bathrooms of the top floor because they are almost always empty and no one goes around there. But still if someone passed by im pretty sure he could hear me, but other places in school are too crowded. Many times i need to wait till i get home. How do you keep quiet? or at least somewhat quiet?

[becca07]

but dont you find it almost impossible to find a bathroom with no girls around and to keep at least a bit quiet. Im not the most noisy of girls but still, when i orgasm i make quite some noise that can easily be heard if there is people around. At school i go to the bathrooms of the top floor because they are almost always empty and no one goes around there. But still if someone passed by im pretty sure he could hear me, but other places in school are too crowded. Many times i need to wait till i get home. How do you keep quiet? or at least somewhat quiet?

Good questions. I guess everyone has there own tricks and routines. Like you mentioned there are i guess sweet spots around the school ( bathrooms to which people dont use often) For my school the stalls on the third floor are always good cuz most of the classrooms are old up there now are used for storage( so, not a lot of traffic compared to the other floors).

When it comes to noise i can be quite if i want ( its hard tho) I can usually keep the moans down, and when i O, i usually keep the noise to a few deep gasps/breaths. If i think its going to be a big one or think people are around i try to flush around the time my O hits....but for the most part i can keep it down.

If I can, I will hold out til home....but honestly...there are times when the urge hits early in the day and if i dont do sumthn about it...then i can't focus on school.

[jenna123]

Good questions. I guess everyone has there own tricks and routines. Like you mentioned there are i guess sweet spots around the school ( bathrooms to which people dont use often) For my school the stalls on the third floor are always good cuz most of the classrooms are old up there now are used for storage( so, not a lot of traffic compared to the other floors).

When it comes to noise i can be quite if i want ( its hard tho) I can usually keep the moans down, and when i O, i usually keep the noise to a few deep gasps/breaths. If i think its going to be a big one or think people are around i try to flush around the time my O hits....but for the most part i can keep it down.

If I can, I will hold out til home....but honestly...there are times when the urge hits early in the day and if i dont do sumthn about it...then i can't focus on school.

oh, the flushing at the time you orgasm is actually a great trick i had not thought about that, dumb me. I find quite difficult to control noise and suddently a large moan may escape when i dont want it to. Thats why even at home i try to do it when there is no one around. But still much more secure than doing it in school, i always fear of another girl catching me or a teacher lol.
When you get the urge in the morning its annoying yes, you spend the whole school day focused on other things. My best friend says she masturbates in the morning before going to school, but me, i dont have time and besides im too sleepy.

[becca07]

oh, the flushing at the time you orgasm is actually a great trick i had not thought about that, dumb me. I find quite difficult to control noise and suddently a large moan may escape when i dont want it to. Thats why even at home i try to do it when there is no one around. But still much more secure than doing it in school, i always fear of another girl catching me or a teacher lol.
When you get the urge in the morning its annoying yes, you spend the whole school day focused on other things. My best friend says she masturbates in the morning before going to school, but me, i dont have time and besides im too sleepy.

Exactly! Your right tho about the surprise moans...i worry about those too. I guess for me i get paranoid usually when i feel i am halfway to the O...the pleasure gets really intense and i when in the bathroom at school its hard to concentrate on trying to make myself O while at the same time trying not to make noise lol. I usually just bite my lip and just try to breath through my nose and keep the moans in when it happens.

But as your friend mentioned....if you have the time in the morning i usually try to m-bate as a sort of way to surpress the urges that may come during the day. If i dont...it seems that its more likely i will get horny during the day...and if i didnt do it the night before even... then whoa gurl.. i usually have some problems at school lol.

[jenna123]

yea haha i need to masturbate every night before going to sleep, if not its gonna be a long day. Its hard for me to concentrate on doing both things haha, i can either masturbate, or keep quiet, but not both at the same time lol. Ill try to bite my lip and breathe through my nose next time see if it gets better. Another problem is when you are almost close to orgasm, when there is no turning back lol (there was a thread about this i remember :P), you get to a point when you are going to orgasm yes or yes, and imagine someone enters the bathroom right there... that would be awkward

[Tina36DD]

Exactly! Your right tho about the surprise moans...i worry about those too. I guess for me i get paranoid usually when i feel i am halfway to the O...the pleasure gets really intense and i when in the bathroom at school its hard to concentrate on trying to make myself O while at the same time trying not to make noise lol. I usually just bite my lip and just try to breath through my nose and keep the moans in when it happens.

But as your friend mentioned....if you have the time in the morning i usually try to m-bate as a sort of way to surpress the urges that may come during the day. If i dont...it seems that its more likely i will get horny during the day...and if i didnt do it the night before even... then whoa gurl.. i usually have some problems at school lol.

This is totally me! I HAVE to MB in the morning or I can't concentrate at school...then I do it again when I get home..sometimes 1-3 times and again b4 bed....I have woken up rubbing myself and I am soaked! I squirt, so doing it at school is out of the question. We do have individual shower stalls in the locker rooms, but hey are open at the top...done it there many times, though...always loud in there...snuck in a few times to take care of myself!

Glad I'm not the only one who is horny 24/7....just about anything makes me horny and wet!

[Emmaxxoo]

Im quite a horny girl anyway but it can be awkward in class so maybe just wear a liner or just try and hide it til you get a break and take care of it haha

[SouthernGirl]

I normally sneak off to a public restroom

[Raven13]

I just started going through puberty, so I'm constantly getting horny in class, omg it's so embarrassing, but I usually just go take care of it in the bathroom.

[jenni31]

At school s lot but the mist embarrassing was at church cuz I was focused on this super cute alter boy...my panties were soaked...first time I orgasmed in church. Just squeezing my thighs together. Now I wear panty liners so I don't leak through

[Emerald Dream]

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