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TurboDieselBandit
October 5th, 2013, 10:55 AM
Last night I went to my second convert, it was awesome! Many people got to crowd surf, up to four people at a time and I jumped into a mosh pit a few times. While there I saw this really cute guy so I casually worked my way over to him and his friends and stayed close to them for the remainder of the concert. It seemed like he might have been thinking the same thing about me but maybe that's just wishful thinking. Anyways, after the last song I walked with him and his friends as we all went outside and introduced myself but didn't have the courage to say I liked him. So when we split that was the end of it. :/ How would you approach a stranger without freaking them out or giving the wrong impression?

Laquifa
October 5th, 2013, 10:57 AM
You do it verrrrrrry strategically. I think it would be best to drop hints at first, then see how they react. If they're going positively, go for it and just let it out, if not, then don't say anything and keep it moving :P

NeuroTiger
October 5th, 2013, 11:17 AM
I'm sorry if you wanted only bisexuals to reply.
Last year, I was walking with some friends going to the local playground.
Someone just,out of the blue, came to talk to me mostly. He gave some clues of what he wanted. It's just so weird that if ever I see him, I'll avoid him.
On the other hand, I have a nice friend who showed some sign of what u want. Since we r quite close and I'm straight, he understood it. You need to know each other first. Love at first sight is a Once in a blue moon phenomenon.

sqishy
October 5th, 2013, 03:45 PM
Drop subtle hints that you like the person, and chat to see what they are like. Always a good idea to get a general idea of the person you are attracted to. If you're getting negative results (most likely unfortunately), then it's best to back off and not make the person uncomfortable. But if he likes you back, then by all means go for it.

TurboDieselBandit
October 7th, 2013, 08:04 PM
Thanks for the help! I know I didn't know him personally but he was one of the most gorgeous people I've ever seen eye to eye with. I really wish I could have gotten to know him.

On our way out I talked with him and his friends casually, asked if he was around campus a lot, he wasn't, and made general small talk. I didn't want to come on too strong so I didn't bring up exchanging numbers. He didn't mind looking me directly in my eyes while grinning so it almost seemed like we were on the same page. However, I did ask if he was on Facebook and gave him my name to find me but the fact that he didn't make a move to write it down told me we were not on the same page and to let it go, so I did.

College is sometimes like going to the beach, just because your surrounded by many people all day doesn't mean you'll make new friend; at least not without seeming a bit odd. :/

Amazerful
October 10th, 2013, 10:43 PM
I've done plenty of times at concerts and I think you shouldn't immediately tell him that you like him, the key is to get someones number or information first, and to do that you have to just know how you feel and just being like "i think you're really cool, lets go to another concert together this was so much fun" and if they feel the same way they will easily give you their number and stuff so you can talk later and make a deeper connection. Sometimes you don't even have to go through this process, a few weeks ago I met this guy and girl while waiting I'm line to see this band named Chelsea Grin and by the time we made it in the Venue we were facebook friends ans had already exchanged numbers because we just got along that well. So you didn't even have to tell him at that time that you liked him, just make sure you get a way to keep contact so you could've eventually told him