Best friend

[shark_attack]

My best friend stayed over my house last night and it was just us two as my parents went out… so we were getting changed in the same room like we always do... But, he was watching me change... So then we were laying in bed, and we were watching porn and he started to jack me off... I was a bit freaked out but I enjoyed it, then he started giving me a bj and then we pretty much slept naked in the same bed... We didn't have sex or anything and this was the first time anything like this Has ever happened.... I'm straight I like girls but now my best friend wants to come over tomorrow and me to do the same to him... What do I do?? :what:

[harley95]

Do what you feel comfortable with

[heresravenclaw]

It's just one of those rare opportunities that teen boys get. Now I don't know if you want to experiment with guys but if you and your best friend are really close, then I would say go for it. Make sure you are comfortable and don't feel too rushed to do things with him. But it's good to return the favour and after all he is your best friend. Hope this helped and ask me any questions about it. :)

[Liam TWB]

Dont rush into doing anything because you feel you should return the favour. Think through how you feel about doing it and how far you could go and still feel comfortable. If you like the idea then go for it. It can be very enjoyable and it wont change you from being straight.

[Ariesboy]

My best friend stayed over my house last night and it was just us two as my parents went out… so we were getting changed in the same room like we always do... But, he was watching me change... So then we were laying in bed, and we were watching porn and he started to jack me off... I was a bit freaked out but I enjoyed it, then he started giving me a bj and then we pretty much slept naked in the same bed... We didn't have sex or anything and this was the first time anything like this Has ever happened.... I'm straight I like girls but now my best friend wants to come over tomorrow and me to do the same to him... What do I do?? :what:

well it all depends on you. if you liked it and you wanna do it again i would say go for it. but if you dont you should tell him. after all he is your best friend, you guys should be able to talk about anything.

[ksdnfkfr]

Do what you're comfortable doing. I think there's a lot of straight best friends who enjoy an intimate relationship when they are in their young teens. What he did didn't ruin anything between you so that's great. Doing this with him won't "make you gay".
It's simply known as "experimenting" and it's okay to do, if you want. Good luck and hope it works out alright.

[McAK101]

If you're comfortable with doing it again, go for it! It's just curiosity. But do know that you two doing this does not "make you gay", it's just experimenting.

[johnsmith1]

My best friend stayed over my house last night and it was just us two as my parents went out… so we were getting changed in the same room like we always do... But, he was watching me change... So then we were laying in bed, and we were watching porn and he started to jack me off... I was a bit freaked out but I enjoyed it, then he started giving me a bj and then we pretty much slept naked in the same bed... We didn't have sex or anything and this was the first time anything like this Has ever happened.... I'm straight I like girls but now my best friend wants to come over tomorrow and me to do the same to him... What do I do?? :what:

Be honest with him. Personally I've never been in that situation, but would have liked to have tried at least once. If he's a good friend, he should understand if you don't want to go so far (eg a hj only rather than a BJ). Don't worry as it is only curiosity and experimenting. Let us know how you get on.

[kylem1229]

There probably is a chance he is gay/bi. I would recommend talking to him about it. If you dont like it or dont feel comfortable, you need to tell him.

[pjones]

if you're OK with it go ahead. it's fun

[Catholic Guy]

If you're okay giving him a handjob and blowjob go for it, if only a handjob only give him a hand job, if you are only okay wanking with him, tell him, he needs to know what you are comfortable with, he's just experimenting anyway

[connor156]

Just go for it but state your boundaries

[connor156]

I would love to do that with my friend but im straight

[riverboy]

Do what you are comfortable with and state what you will do or not do.

[Get Outta Compton]

You're lucky! :P

[sdude]

I would love to do that with my friend but im straight

If u think you would love to...wouldn't that make u straight-curious??

[acurasrock]

Well it seems that you weren't opposed to when he was pleasuring you, but if your comfortable with it, then there's nothing wrong with a little experimentation. If you didn't enjoy it, and don't want to do things with him, then just let him know that you dont want to try and do stuff like that with him again. He will understand, no big deal really.

[Liopliop]

My best friend stayed over my house last night and it was just us two as my parents went out… so we were getting changed in the same room like we always do... But, he was watching me change... So then we were laying in bed, and we were watching porn and he started to jack me off... I was a bit freaked out but I enjoyed it, then he started giving me a bj and then we pretty much slept naked in the same bed... We didn't have sex or anything and this was the first time anything like this Has ever happened.... I'm straight I like girls but now my best friend wants to come over tomorrow and me to do the same to him... What do I do?? :what:

just remember that some things just can't be undone ;)

[fast8]

Do it if u want to if not then don't just talk to him about it like everyone else said ur best friends

[Dennis Chaney]

Most teenagers go through a phase of experimenting, so just don't go outside of your comfort zone.

[Luke91]

Even though it was unplanned, it sounds like you liked the surprise of receiving. Experimenting is just trying something. Maybe you would also like giving. You will not know without trying.

[mammolito96]

just be honest with him, dont feel pressured into doing anything you dont want to. if he wants to do stuff to you and you enjoyed it, then go for it. whatever makes you feel good as long as youre not hurting anyone is fine :)

[WALLE]

i dont know if id go as far ad giving him a bj but i would definetly give him a hj but do what ever is most comfortable for you, its your life no one elses, you've only got one shot at life so live it how you want

[DamoMac]

If your uncomfortable in any way, just say no. Don't let him pressure you, or force you. It's your choice, and your choice only.

[Rexster]

I would love to do that with my friend but im straight
i'd love to that with my friend but HE is str8 :)

[Pete_Dude]

I've done and still do stuff with friends. It's just experimenting. All that matters is that your comfortable doing things together.

[grantd9899]

Do what you want

[hockeyfan]

Go ahead and do it, if u enjoy it. It's just trying something new and its natural. I'd have done the same thing.

[Aaron55]

said it before and ill say it again. if he's ur friend then what bad could come of it? having said that dont be afraid to explain your distaste for the matter clearly. that avoids the awkwardness of you you doing uncomfortable things physically, and him feeling undesirable or embarrassed.

[kinger]

if you dont feel comfortable dont do it otherwise go for it man

[dball37]

I you wanna do it, do it.

[salty]

A BJ is sex

[Swagging god]

A BJ is sex

it's oral sex, yes. Not "sex" as is anal which I think is what he meant.

[loki2000]

well..if you enjoyed and were comfortable with him beating you off...have him come over....maybe do the same stuff to him... you two are just having fun

[bright]

if you dont want to do it just tell him you're not comfortable with it...you are not forced to do it.

[hansemann]

do it if you feel comfortable with it, but i u don't i wouldn't recomend it

[Throwaway24]

If u want to do it them go ahead but if not tell him that and don't something u will regret

[Toptoptop]

If you are comfortable with it go right ahead. I just wanna know, how do people do that and the person not like freak out? Like if somebody did that to me id be ok but if I did it to them they would freak out.

[randomness2345]

If that was me, I would. But, if you don't want to, just tell him, or do something less, like just a HJ.

[KoolKid96]

My best friend stayed over my house last night and it was just us two as my parents went out… so we were getting changed in the same room like we always do... But, he was watching me change... So then we were laying in bed, and we were watching porn and he started to jack me off... I was a bit freaked out but I enjoyed it, then he started giving me a bj and then we pretty much slept naked in the same bed... We didn't have sex or anything and this was the first time anything like this Has ever happened.... I'm straight I like girls but now my best friend wants to come over tomorrow and me to do the same to him... What do I do?? :what:

Personally I would advise you to do what you feel like doing. I mean if u're up for it then go ahead, but if u don't wanna do it then you should tell your friend

[SillyShyGuy]

It is normal. My friend and I have had a similar experience and we are both straight. He might be curious.