jay92
January 28th, 2008, 03:13 AM
prepare for the pathetic history of my relationships, it could help people know what not to do...
ok well in yr9 (14 yrs old for u differently schooled people) i started to really get interested in girls.
1.I met some chick over msn who knew one of my friends who goes to a different school. She got laid when she was 13 and i just became obsessed with her. I think i freaked her out n shit. i had never had a gf or kissed a girl so i just didnt know what to do. We slowly just drifted apart. I told people she was my gf when she wasnt and yeh it just got weird.
2.went to the speedway and chatted up some girls there, they seemed pretty nice and showed some interest, got numbers and msn n stuff and eventually i just asked one out (over msn *rolls eyes*) she said yes, after 3 days she was back with her ex. She kept speaking to me and decided to screw with me, constantly said she liked me, told me she wanted me and stuff and i just met up with her a couple of times. Both those times she tried to get some kid to bash me.
3. I met this girl at tennis, who invited me to a party a night later, she kept sayin love ya in the end of txt and with my inexpieriance i said i loved her back n shit, freaked her out. Told her a lie she believed me. She had a boyfriend and used thiings i said to get hhim to think i was stalking her. Constantly f*#&#^ with me for about half a yr whilst #2 on this post was f*#&($*# with me. Obviously once i woke up to the fact i thought i couldnt escape and got depressed and shit.
4.My best friend at the time introduced me to a girl he knew and they were good friends. I asked her out, she said yes.... I was pretty immature at the time and its now that i realise what a dick i was. I never called her, just spoke to her occasionally, i hugged her lots tho... generally just kinda ignored her and now i realise what a great gf she was. Wish i could have another chance but this was back in yr9(14yrs) and now im in yr11(16yrs). I was a dick and i broke it off under the influence of #2 on this post (cos it thought i had a chance with her)
5. Ok after a yr without having a girlfriend i met this girl at a party, she was alright but was friends with the biggest backstabbing dickhead i know. We talked for a while on the phone and i took her out on a date. We went out for a while untill the backstabber guy tried to break us up by telling both of us things that we have never said( if that makes sence). I bashed the guy and she broke up with me, she took me back because she realised she was being stupid. But she didnt tell the backstabber dude. We went out for another month and she was annoying me so i dumped her. Afterwards recieveing many insults and prank fone calls from the backstabber guy.
6. I met this girl at the movies with a group of people. Spoke to her for a while and asked her out a couple months later. The first day of us being toghether we ran into the backstabber dude from #5 girl. He got jealous because i was hanging out with "his" friend. Even though he ignored her for 6 months and now suddenly wants to be her friend. This girl was great, she always stood up for me when people bitched about me behind my back, she was beautiful, affectionate, and we always had fun. I went away for four days and had no reception to speak to her by phone. In that time she had spoken to the backstabber dude who convinced her to dump me.
that was about 3 weeks ago but im stil pretty broken about it when i think of it. I didnt obsess or anything but i saw us being toghether for ages, she wass something special. Thats why the backstabber guy ended up with a spanner to the face.:yes:
So here i am, my only friends are 20-50yr old hot rodders, i dont hang out with any girls. If i see a good looking girl on the street i dont know how to approach them and meet them. I dont want to be lonely for another yr.
Its all pretty f&$%#@
ok well theres my ramble.... anyone got some advice with what to do?
ok well in yr9 (14 yrs old for u differently schooled people) i started to really get interested in girls.
1.I met some chick over msn who knew one of my friends who goes to a different school. She got laid when she was 13 and i just became obsessed with her. I think i freaked her out n shit. i had never had a gf or kissed a girl so i just didnt know what to do. We slowly just drifted apart. I told people she was my gf when she wasnt and yeh it just got weird.
2.went to the speedway and chatted up some girls there, they seemed pretty nice and showed some interest, got numbers and msn n stuff and eventually i just asked one out (over msn *rolls eyes*) she said yes, after 3 days she was back with her ex. She kept speaking to me and decided to screw with me, constantly said she liked me, told me she wanted me and stuff and i just met up with her a couple of times. Both those times she tried to get some kid to bash me.
3. I met this girl at tennis, who invited me to a party a night later, she kept sayin love ya in the end of txt and with my inexpieriance i said i loved her back n shit, freaked her out. Told her a lie she believed me. She had a boyfriend and used thiings i said to get hhim to think i was stalking her. Constantly f*#&#^ with me for about half a yr whilst #2 on this post was f*#&($*# with me. Obviously once i woke up to the fact i thought i couldnt escape and got depressed and shit.
4.My best friend at the time introduced me to a girl he knew and they were good friends. I asked her out, she said yes.... I was pretty immature at the time and its now that i realise what a dick i was. I never called her, just spoke to her occasionally, i hugged her lots tho... generally just kinda ignored her and now i realise what a great gf she was. Wish i could have another chance but this was back in yr9(14yrs) and now im in yr11(16yrs). I was a dick and i broke it off under the influence of #2 on this post (cos it thought i had a chance with her)
5. Ok after a yr without having a girlfriend i met this girl at a party, she was alright but was friends with the biggest backstabbing dickhead i know. We talked for a while on the phone and i took her out on a date. We went out for a while untill the backstabber guy tried to break us up by telling both of us things that we have never said( if that makes sence). I bashed the guy and she broke up with me, she took me back because she realised she was being stupid. But she didnt tell the backstabber dude. We went out for another month and she was annoying me so i dumped her. Afterwards recieveing many insults and prank fone calls from the backstabber guy.
6. I met this girl at the movies with a group of people. Spoke to her for a while and asked her out a couple months later. The first day of us being toghether we ran into the backstabber dude from #5 girl. He got jealous because i was hanging out with "his" friend. Even though he ignored her for 6 months and now suddenly wants to be her friend. This girl was great, she always stood up for me when people bitched about me behind my back, she was beautiful, affectionate, and we always had fun. I went away for four days and had no reception to speak to her by phone. In that time she had spoken to the backstabber dude who convinced her to dump me.
that was about 3 weeks ago but im stil pretty broken about it when i think of it. I didnt obsess or anything but i saw us being toghether for ages, she wass something special. Thats why the backstabber guy ended up with a spanner to the face.:yes:
So here i am, my only friends are 20-50yr old hot rodders, i dont hang out with any girls. If i see a good looking girl on the street i dont know how to approach them and meet them. I dont want to be lonely for another yr.
Its all pretty f&$%#@
ok well theres my ramble.... anyone got some advice with what to do?