Trying to figure out whats going on with me

[letmecm4u]

Hi i was hopeing to hear back to see if this type of thing is normal. I am a 17 male virgin and I go to an all boys school i was hazed the other day. I had to give head for a cpl of mins and i had to stick a dildo in my butt. I was wondering if this is normal in regular schools none of the teachers know about it. I don't know what to do and I am confused to weather im gay or not.

[Luminous]

If you were really forced to do it, I believe that could count as sexual assault. As far as I know being forced to perform oral and stick a dildo up yourself against your will is not normal in schools of any kind, nor right, but I go to an online school and take it at home, so I don't know.

[letmecm4u]

I had the chose to walk away but i wouldn't have gotten in with this group just to specify

[Luminous]

Well if you had the choice it wasn't sexual assault. You could be bi curious, bisexual, or yes, you could be gay. I don't know enough. Are you sexually attracted to boys? Emotionally? What about girls?

[letmecm4u]

I dont realy know any girls I only get to leave school during summer break and i spend that up at a lke house not realy anyone around there. I dont have any real emotional ties to my friends they are cool but thats pretty much the extent of it.

[Mutah]

The larger issue at hand is why would you agree to being hazed simply to be accepted into a group?

This is not a norm in schools.

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The larger issue at hand is why would you agree to being hazed simply to be accepted into a group?

This.

Sounds like sexual assault though.

[Miri]

Why would you agree to something like that if you really weren't interested?

And no, stuff like that doesn't happen at my school, sexual harassment that happens is almost never by choice.

[Taryn98]

This is sexual assault and should be reported to the police, the school, and your parents. People should go to jail over this.

[Get Outta Compton]

Don't ever do things like that just to fit in.

[ksdnfkfr]

Like the others are saying, the real issue is agreeing to this type of humiliation in order to fit in with a group who would subject you to this sort of thing. School is for getting an education that will impact the rest of your future. This group that's so important to you isn't going to be around in your life down the road. All you are going to gain from it are the bad memories of what you did. I'm guessing this is anything but a study group, so how much is being a part of it going to impact your grades? All that is going to matter to you about school once you are out of it for the rest of your life is how well you did academically, not socially.

[Dennis Chaney]

Next time scream rape. Because that is sexual assualt, harrassment and a long list of other things that shouldn't happen, unless you want it and you choose to do it out of free will not for something in return and definitely not at school.