Masturbation?

[AzuPazu]

I know I haven't been on for awhile and most of you people would be like who the fuck is that.
But I have had this question for a long now.
I don't masturbate AT ALL.
I do read fanfictions where sex scenes are described and apparently I do dream about sex.
But I would never think about even doing it in real.
It would just make me feel awkward and not comfortable at all.
And people look at me as if I'm weird for not masturbating.
Is something wrong with me?
If so, why do I think this way?
If not, why do they think that way?

[BUMP] I just noticed I posted this in the wrong section, could someone move it to questions about teen sexuality please? Thank you very much<3.

[Harley Quinn]

This is the right section :P


If you don't masturbate, you don't masturbate. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, it just means you don't do it. Not everyone does it and you shouldn't feel like you have to. Some people will say you're weird because it's also normal to masturbate, but if you feel comfortable not doing it that's all that matters and you shouldn't feel pressurised into doing it. It's more of a taboo to hear that someone doesn't masturbate as everyone just expects that you do it, but that doesn't mean anything. You have to make sure you're comfortable and if that means not doing something, that's totally okay.

[AzuPazu]

Thank you so very much, it's just kind of hard to make your friends believe you don't think that way though.. I just hope they'll realize I was being honest and would understand @@.

[Sandra Main]

You are very normal. A lot of girls or boys don't masterbate.
If a child is raised up in a family believing that
masterbation is evil or bad in early years it will
reflect them in later years. I could be very
well wrong. Just my opinion.

[emily-candace]

There are lots of girls who don't mbate but that doesn't make them weird. I do but I don't brag about it to everyone I know. on here it doesn't matter because I have never met anyone on here that I know. its fun to do but if you aren't up to it then you aren't up to it. don't let it bother you. you are perfectly normal.

[AzuPazu]

You are very normal. A lot of girls or boys don't masterbate.
If a child is raised up in a family believing that
masterbation is evil or bad in early years it will
reflect them in later years. I could be very
well wrong. Just my opinion.

Well I haven't been raised like that either tbh. I honestly don't know why I think that way but I just do @@;.

[stoneflowe96]

First of all there is nothing wrong in not masturbating. If you don't feel like to do it, don't do it.Nobody should judge you for this, like nobody should be juged for masturbating. This is your body and feelings and you know best what you like. So weird like you said it is not. I have friends who don't masturbate, you are not alone. The same topic is with your thoughts and dreams. You like what you think, dream and read? So why should you stop? You like it and you can't hurt yourself, so keep on if you like. For the other point you just let them talk and don't get under a pressure.

[anyone50]

Thank you so very much, it's just kind of hard to make your friends believe you don't think that way though.. I just hope they'll realize I was being honest and would understand @@.

I'm confused as to why you would even have to convince your friends that you don't masturbate. It's a personnel choice and really none of their buisness