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Seth Green
October 1st, 2013, 09:43 PM
Hey...A pretty long time ago I decided I wasn't going to be in any relationships, untill I had gone through a good bit a puberty, you know growth spurt, Penis, hair, all that stuff. And while I've been sticking to that...I'm 15 and still none of this stuff has happened... I've never even kissed a guy...(Or girl but not really interested...) Ok so bottom line is...I feel like I'm the only 15 year old out there like this, I know I'm not it's just...I would like some reassurement. Also, should I go ahead and start a relation ship even though I haven't gone through puberty...?

Luminous
October 1st, 2013, 09:51 PM
It is your choice whether you want to wait until you are in the middle of puberty. There are a lot of other people your age that haven't been far through puberty. You are going to speed up very soon. If you don't hit puberty by your 16th birthday you should see a doctor, but for now you're okay.

Blood
October 1st, 2013, 10:06 PM
It is your choice whether you want to wait until you are in the middle of puberty. There are a lot of other people your age that haven't been far through puberty. You are going to speed up very soon. If you don't hit puberty by your 16th birthday you should see a doctor, but for now you're okay.

This is great advice. The only thing I can add is that you shouldn't get caught up trying to be like other people. If you're going to get in a relationship, do it because YOU want to, not because it's what everyone else is doing.

Luminous
October 1st, 2013, 10:13 PM
This is great advice. The only thing I can add is that you shouldn't get caught up trying to be like other people. If you're going to get in a relationship, do it because YOU want to, not because it's what everyone else is doing.

That's very true too! Don't be afraid to be you, that special person.

Castle of Glass
October 1st, 2013, 10:37 PM
well, you are a guy, so some guys tend to hit puberty later, as late as 18(yes i know a couple people like that). but no worries. i haven't even given a hug to a girl that isn't family. ever. so you aren't alone.

CharlieHorse
October 1st, 2013, 11:11 PM
unfortunately, relationships are really hard. They often don't work out, but if they do, it's wonderful. I suggest you might as well give it a go.
I'm 16, dude, straight as far as i know, and i've never kissed, or had a gf... kinda depressing...
If you find someone who likes you, and you like them, I would say go for it. :)

Animelover16
October 1st, 2013, 11:43 PM
oi!!!..theres nothing wrong with it,in fact i have the same situation but i don't take it worrying,maybe someday ur prince charming will come at the right time....trust me,,there are millions of guys there,.,,someday,you'll found him

Saint of Sinners
October 2nd, 2013, 04:45 AM
It's completely up to you. Do what YOU feel comfortable doing. Don't feel pressured into doing or not doing anything you don't want to.

Liii
October 4th, 2013, 10:49 AM
It's your choice if you want a relationship. I'm 16 and haven't had a real relationship yet but I wish I had.

Jess
October 4th, 2013, 10:54 AM
There're tons of 15 year olds and over who have never been in a relationship. I'm 4 years older and never been in one. My older brother is TWENTY and he's never been in one. There's no need to rush, you'll eventually find that special someone.

JamesSuperBoy
October 4th, 2013, 11:24 AM
Hey...A pretty long time ago I decided I wasn't going to be in any relationships, untill I had gone through a good bit a puberty, you know growth spurt, Penis, hair, all that stuff. And while I've been sticking to that...I'm 15 and still none of this stuff has happened... I've never even kissed a guy...(Or girl but not really interested...) Ok so bottom line is...I feel like I'm the only 15 year old out there like this, I know I'm not it's just...I would like some reassurement. Also, should I go ahead and start a relation ship even though I haven't gone through puberty...?

relationship depends on someone else - so maybe that is the factor or you just do not feel ready.

But if you are concerned about lack of puberty onset then maybe you can talk to someone -

Whatever you are you and - only you can decide on relationships.

sqishy
October 4th, 2013, 02:53 PM
I've never been in a relationship yet either. I wouldn't rush it trying to find someone, instead seeing who is not straight and therefore available first would be a good idea. A bad thing is to think you've started a relationship with a guy, but realising that he is straight.

Dannibabi
October 5th, 2013, 10:28 AM
Well I've never been in a relationship either, really I hardly have friends...although it isn't really my own choice like you.

Hollywood
October 5th, 2013, 10:44 AM
Well hey, I'm 18 and I've yet to be in an actual relationship. Don't worry yourself too much, we're all young. Just be yourself and you'll find what you're looking for soon enough, whatever that may be.

Luis_
October 13th, 2013, 08:20 PM
Dont worry! Turning 15 and i haven't been in any relationship too! (unless dating a stuff toy counts) So yea, you arent the only one! c:

roadwarrior
October 15th, 2013, 03:13 AM
I don't have been in any relationship.. I'm also 15 ... don't worry, you're not the only one in this world that has a kind of problem like that..

Amazerful
October 15th, 2013, 07:45 PM
Relationships aren't necessary but if you want one, go for it

Camazotz
October 15th, 2013, 07:50 PM
If I had a nickle for every teenager thought they were the only x-year old not in a relationship, I'd have a lot of nickles.