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Just_Me_Doing_Me
October 1st, 2013, 06:55 PM
So, I like this girl, and I'm 1000% sure she likes me, but my friends dont like her. I want to be her boyfriend, but I dont want to loose my bestfriend.. what should I do?
Blood
October 1st, 2013, 08:46 PM
Why doesn't your friend like her? The worst thing you can do is let your friends run your love life, but it's always good to get their input.

However, if you honestly like the girl, go out with her.
WeAreOneRepublic
October 1st, 2013, 09:35 PM
Its your mind and body, if you want a relationship then do it, your best friend shouldn't run your love life. If they do get pissy then all I can say is don't fold. keep it going and dont turn it into a secret relationship.
Luminous
October 1st, 2013, 10:27 PM
If you honestly like her, try and figure out why your bff doesn't like her. If you shoot down your friend for a temporary girlfriend you will regret it later.
dsi411
October 1st, 2013, 11:04 PM
Don't listen to those people that say
follow your heart
I say the girl
CharlieHorse
October 1st, 2013, 11:26 PM
chicks before dicks, but bros before hoes...
ask your friend why he doesn't like her. It may be that he just needs to get to know her a little bit.
ksdnfkfr
October 1st, 2013, 11:29 PM
If your best friend has an ultimatum like that, I'm not sure he's that great of a friend. He should be happy for you unless he's jealous or something. My bf's friends don't really like me all that much, but they go along with it because they are good guys.
Vocabulous
October 1st, 2013, 11:43 PM
If there is a possiblity that you could lose a friend, don't do it, because after your girlfriend breaks up with you (it will happen), you won't have a friend to support you. Never sacrifice a friend that can't dump you for a girlfriend who can.
Just_Me_Doing_Me
October 2nd, 2013, 02:53 AM
Thanks everyone. Im getting to LOVE this site, as it is a way for Me to clear my mind and not get bogged up
Saint of Sinners
October 2nd, 2013, 04:16 AM
I guess you should find out exactly why they doesn't approve before you make a decision. He may have a point. However, I think you should still use your own judgement, and not just listen to whatever your friends say.
Just_Me_Doing_Me
October 2nd, 2013, 08:31 PM
Well, I asked her out today, and she said yes. So far, no one has gave me a REAL problem. Thanks for yalls input thought. Hopefully this is a good relationship