sex with girlfriend

[goodboy321]

My gf and I have a lot of sex, and I always use a condom....I am 16 and responsible, but recently she was wanted me to stop using a condom, and cum inside her. I don't feel comfortable doing that, but don't know how to get it across to her...thoughts?

[thomas.mueller]

however she's on the pill now?

[goodboy321]

however she's on the pill now?

yes, she is on the pill

[thomas.mueller]

so i think she wants to know how feeling the cum...

[goodboy321]

yeah....i mean maybe i will cum in her once, but i don't want it to be regular occurance. maybe i can try fucking her bare, but don't cum in her

[Living For Love]

You need to be really careful, you know that the pill is not 100% effective...

[goodboy321]

You need to be really careful, you know that the pill is not 100% effective...

that's why I don't really want to do it man

[Living For Love]

that's why I don't really want to do it man

So, you need to tell her that. If she really loves you, she will understand, and I guess neither of you want to ruin your amazing lives by being parents with 16 years old...

[goodboy321]

So, you need to tell her that. If she really loves you, she will understand, and I guess neither of you want to ruin your amazing lives by being parents with 16 years old...


thanks for the advice man!

[Harley Quinn]

As I think that you could get some responses from girls on this, Boys :arrow: Both.

[kylem1229]

I'd definitely say its not worth the risk of being pregnant. There really is no 100% safe way, even condoms don't always work (holes can be made, etc.). Just explain to her that you don't want to get her pregnant, in case the pill doesn't work.

[1_21Guns]

You need to be really careful, you know that the pill is not 100% effective...

as has been said condoms aren't 100% either, or I wouldn't be sat here right now :P if you're not comfortable just tell her you're not, she should understand and respect that being as she's your girlfriend

[nklarke]

Maybe 1 time and she taking the "after pill" just in case, but if you do it in a regular basis, be prepared to be a father soon.

[jtb124680]

I've done both, and although it feels amazing without a condom, you definitely are taking a risk

[Tarannosaurus]

Not only is the pill not fully effective but there's still the risk of STDs. I really don't think you should risk it. Sit her down and talk to her about the risks she would be exposed to and explain that the reason you don't want to do it is for her safety. If in the end you do decide to have sex without a condom, at least get tested for STDs before and after.

[Ricky.h]

My gf and I have a lot of sex, and I always use a condom....I am 16 and responsible, but recently she was wanted me to stop using a condom, and cum inside her. I don't feel comfortable doing that, but don't know how to get it across to her...thoughts?

My girlfriend is on the pill! So I cum in her, just make sure she has plan B pills with her

It'll be WORTH it...trust me

[goodboy321]

My girlfriend is on the pill! So I cum in her, just make sure she has plan B pills with her

It'll be WORTH it...trust me

thanks man!!! think i might give it a shot

[Swagging god]

My suggestion is and I've done this before is after getting tested try using spermicide in combination with the pill. However, if u do not feel comfortable with this combo idea, explain to her that you love her but aren't comfortable with the possible pregnancy outcome of bare vaginal sex. Hope this helps :)

[LuisFer]

Me and my girlfriend used to fuck all the time bareback as she was on the pill and we never got a pregnancy scare, however it is not 100% effective but neither is the condom.
What is completely different is the feeling, bareback is 100% better! Trust me you won't regret it, just make sure you have the emergency pill just in case.

[Luminous]

So, you need to tell her that. If she really loves you, she will understand, and I guess neither of you want to ruin your amazing lives by being parents with 16 years old...

Exactly true. Explain to her why you feel like you do, and also that the pill doesn't protect from STD's. If you're not mature enough to listen to your partner and use protection, you're not mature enough to have sex and not mature enough to have a child.

[Richee]

Make sure she takes the pill. you have to be very very careful. The pill always might not work. I would try to be as safe as I can. I would maybe do it one or two times. I would not do it every time you have sex.

[Get Outta Compton]

Bareback sex is OK if your girlfriend is on the pill. There are almost no chances she can get pregnant if you don't ejaculate inside her and even if you do, as long as she takes the pill, you don't have to worry. Of course, it isn't 100% safe, but what is? You take as much a risk when you enter a car, take the plane or go skydiving as when you have sex without a condom and/or when you don't pull out. Trust me, condoms kill the feeling. The sensation without is so much better, it's totally worth the "risk". As much as I admit having neither a condom on or the pill is risky, as long as you don't cum inside, the odds you could impregnate her are practically null. Needless to say, the pill AND a condom is a total overkill.

In summary, don't worry as long as she's on the pill and have fun, buddy. ;)

[denisss]

you are definitely overreacting here, mate. if shes on the pill and takes it regularly, relax and enjoy. not many lads have such cool girl :)
and btw not even condom is 100% secure but the statistics include careless girls who forgot to take the pill and the consequences were pretty bad.
nothing is certain only death and taxes as benji franklin put it haha

[volleyball172]

ive done it with my girlfriend a couple of times. after one day of it happening four times we thought it was a good idea to get the plan B pill. every once in a while isnt too bad.

[Straight]

Remember that STD's exist too! Make sure that you trust her...