Masturbation guilt

[Polo2847]

Does anyone ever feel guilty, or disgusting, after jerking, especially when jerking to porn?

[Starsong]

Nope. (Don't get off watching porn either)
It's natural, in a way. Don't wanna risk getting blue balls *shrug*

[Yolo98]

Yeah its completely normal .

[Second Chance]

Does anyone ever feel guilty, or disgusting, after jerking, especially when jerking to porn?

Yeah, I can see how you feel because I felt the same way when I started jacking off. When I first starting masturbating I felt like I was doing something unclean, forbidden, and adult, and I thought that the feelings and thoughts I had were not right. I especially felt that way after looking at porn.

The way I had gotten over those feelings was realizing that masturbating was totally normal and that all guys have a sex drive. There is nothing wrong with having a sex drive or sexual feelings as long as you don't do anything wrong with those feelings. For example, if you really like panties and masturbate to thoughts of them, then there is no harm to it. However, if you start stealing your sister's panties, then that would be letting your sex drive control you. It is all right to have sexual feelings because that is a part of becoming an adult. As long as your not like Quagmire from Family Guy and having all sorts of perverted things in his house, then you're fine.

Porn is a tough topic because the reality is that most people who are in it are probably not doing it by choice. A lot of porn actors/actresses do sex stuff to pay bills or to make money quickly for this reason or that. If porn is something that doesn't fit with your religion or the way you were brought up, then you might want to jack off to other things. You have to remember that porn is a total fantasy because most of the time people are not going to have sex the way the actors/actresses do in those videos. Of course, a lot of guys learn about sex from porn videos especially if your parents or older siblings have not talked to you about sex. If you absolutely want to watch porn, then do it with the understanding that it's fake. Personally, porn gets really boring, and most of the time it is actually a turn off because its so fake. Beyond all of that, by not watching porn you can at least avoid the risk of getting malware or computer viruses.


If you're on good terms with your parents, most especially your Father, then talk to him about sexuality. It might be awkward at first, but you got to keep in mind he was like you and had to learn about sexuality, too. Your Mom, older siblings, and cousins are good resources, too. When you talk to responsible people about puberty, then that goes a long way to having relief knowing that your normal.

[ksdnfkfr]

I do after porn because I know I'm not supposed to be watching it. So I don't look at it much.

[Nick M]

Sometimes I do after watching porn cuz I feel bad for the people in it that they have to rely on pornography to get money... But all guys(especially teens) masturbate and it's just a natural thing so don't feel guilty ;)