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Melodic
September 29th, 2013, 07:33 PM
So me and my mom have been in a financial struggle lately and ended up moving with her friend and his family. When I first met them, I thought they were pretty cool. But these people are very judgmental, judges everything by society and money. They pretty much talk us down, even if they are just teasing. I pretty much can't invite any of my friends over anytime soon because the last time I invited a friend, they judged him horribly when I left. Plus other people who walk by. I can't even say anything serious anymore, like it either turns perverted or someone changes the subject very rudely.My mom is trying her best to get us out of here, but until it happens I am not sure what to do. I really want to speak my opinion but my mom is telling me not to. But I am literally hiding upstairs unless to eat or pee. Any advice?
JamesSuperBoy
September 30th, 2013, 01:08 AM
That must be so hard for you and your Mum - Hopefully they will be more accepting of opinions might take a bit of time for them to adjust.
ksdnfkfr
September 30th, 2013, 02:12 AM
There is a name for people like that. I think you're doing the best and only thing you can right now. Maybe after you know for sure you're free and clear you can give them a parting shot.
NeuroTiger
September 30th, 2013, 02:29 AM
Keep calm for the moment...
But don't let them rule you.
"Actions speak louder than words".
Living For Love
October 1st, 2013, 12:13 PM
You just need to have some patience. Don't do anything rash now, even if they are horrible people, you still don't have the right to judge them in their own house. I mean, you were in financial trouble and they agreed to have you in their house, so...
At least your mum is working hard to get both of you out of there, and that's good, so just keep yourself in your safe spot and just make them think you're kind and happy. I know it's hard, but it will avoid more problems. Good luck.
Katiya
October 2nd, 2013, 01:02 PM
Oh boy... Sounds like my old 'friends' they were like that and hypocritical.
Sounds like your gonna have to stick it out for a bit. Ive found 'just nod in approval to everything they say or go 'uh huh' and don't say anything else as not to start them ranting. Then when the time is right RUNNNN!!!! lol
Just be kind as possible "fake it" and thank them for the stay.
Richee
October 6th, 2013, 01:20 PM
Try to stay clam. take it day by day.
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