no longer friends

[smithers]

well i posted like a month ago about how my best friend and i had a falling out well we had a good month but recently he has been lying to me telling me he was sick or had a family event but he would really just go hang out with his other friends
i know its fucked up but i cheked his phone and i asked him to hang out before they did so he clearly jsut didnt want to hang out with me
after saying he was "sick" he proceeds to post on twitter and instagram of him hanging with his friends even though he knows i can see these posts
i want to confront him but we r going on a trip together with a mutual friend i could just wait til after the trip but its in march and i want to figure things out now

[kylem1229]

Just confront him and talk to him about.

[sqishy]

Just confront him and talk to him about.

Best option really in this situation.

[crowdlost]

Going through the exact same thing. I even did something similar to the "check his phone" by actually stalking my friend :( it's totally f*cked up and I feel like an obsessed idiot.

Now I'm just thinking of confronting him about the whole thing. Sounds kinda tacky and lame, but honestly I'm at the point where I just want an answer to this whole mess.

[jayjay's toocool]

Well I think checking a phone is a little obsessive, teenyweeny bit, but not confront, just talk it out confronting leads to confrontations

[JamesSuperBoy]

well i posted like a month ago about how my best friend and i had a falling out well we had a good month but recently he has been lying to me telling me he was sick or had a family event but he would really just go hang out with his other friends
i know its fucked up but i cheked his phone and i asked him to hang out before they did so he clearly jsut didnt want to hang out with me
after saying he was "sick" he proceeds to post on twitter and instagram of him hanging with his friends even though he knows i can see these posts
i want to confront him but we r going on a trip together with a mutual friend i could just wait til after the trip but its in march and i want to figure things out now

Lying sucks - You have loads of time before the trip - March so thats like 6 months aways.

I think you have 2 options either you confront him or just let him know you saw the pics and ask how sick he was. But tbh a friend who lies is no friend.

[ksdnfkfr]

Trust is everything in a true friendship and this guy hasn't demonstrated being trustworthy.

[NeuroTiger]

As Ezra said, trust is the backbone in any relationship.
On the brighter side of life, not to point out his untrustworthiness, maybe he played his part in your life and now, you just need to let him go. Make your own life and look for another good friend though it's often very hard.
The decision remains yours: if you think you can befriend him again without problem, just wait or confront him.
Otherwise, just move on.

[Living For Love]

Obviously, you can't tell him you've seen his phone, or he will use that against you. He's definitely not a good friend, but if you still want to confront him and try to fix your friendship, tell him that you saw the pictures in Instagram and ask him why isn't he never available to hang out with you. If he still says he's been sick or busy with family events, ask him more details about that, but try not to seem too intrusive. You can always tell him "I know you and I can see you're lying." or "I'm starting to notice you don't want to be friends anymore.", see what is his reaction, but try to confront him in a way that he has no other chance than tell you the truth.

[Amazerful]

If he doesn't want to hang out with you and he is lying about what he does, maybe he isn't worth hanging out with

[user_of_epicness]

Some people just don't get it. Tell him that he does not get it. Plus, if he acts that way, make new friends and don't talk to him.

[Baby-Kitten]

(Were is the trip?) Um, try confronting him, with out people around. Maybe your friend is moving on. To new friends, it happens. We all end up eaither, moving, stop being friends or something. Just dont make it seem like your overly attached.I hope you figure this out!! Good luck!

[Katiya]

If he does that then hes obviously not a friend. Just ignore it. Don't talk to him any more except for the trip.