am i just unlucky?

[TheStyleGuy]

so over the last couple years ive been "friendzoned" everytime i start to talk to a girl and flirt. (i hate the use of friend zone but it gets the point across easiest) Now im not like most the guys that get friend zones, im actually confident, nice, flirty, and not affriad to talk to girls at all. Now every time i start to like a girl ill hang out with her like 3 times a week at lunch maybe 2 because i dont want to make it look like im trying to just be friends, also i make sure to never bring up thing that only people who are friends talk about like (who you like, and other personal things that only "real" friends would talk about). I also do all the typical firtly things. I also go for girls that i have things in common with and i can joke easily with. so am i just unlucky or is there some secret thing i should do that i am unaware of? (i know there isnt some magic thing to get every girl but 4 years of trying and exactly 0 percent success rate isnt normal)

(also im not desperate so im not sending off those vibes and im not one of those guys that is all im "forever alone")

[Mynick]

Hello and welcome to VT.

You coul try for, i don't know, 6 years and no girl would like you. From what you said you are doing everything right you are just unlucky. The right girl will come, she will like you but until then you can move the world but if some girl doesn't like you, you can't do anything.

[nopelol]

Well you're better than 95% of guys with talking with girls, so give yourself a pat on the back. Yes you might be a bit unlucky, but at least you're trying.

Why not try different things? I met my girlfriend from a friendship (or maybe more of an acquaintanceship) of one year. Maybe you need to try slowing down a bit and talk to some girls casually and see where you end up.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Maybe you try to hard = you got to be friends first the develop the relationship.

maybe you miss that out or seems like you do.

if you hang out like 3 times a week do you actually ask them or try to lessen that and see who asks you to hang out.

[TheStyleGuy]

yeah i dont rush things, and when i said hangout 3 times a week that just for lunch, you see im friends with literlly everyone so thats actual kinda alot of time cause and plus i have clases and i do alot of out of school thigns with these girls. I also am texting alot so i do know them pretty well. (FYI theres only 26 girls in my grade and ive actually run out of options with my grade cause i dont just go for any girl i talk to them a little be4 i start flirting and everything to see if they even my type) (id go outside of school but my german sucks) Oh i am fat but im very well dressed so thats another thing, but i dont let being fat stop me from anything (i am working on osing it too atm)