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Magnus Bane
September 28th, 2013, 10:32 PM
So there is this guy in my freshman class I like and He told me over the summer that he was bi. Well I just happened to developed a crush on him from that point on. And idk if he likes girls or guys more and i feel akward to bring it up and i relle dont know how to either. Can anyone help me???

ksdnfkfr
September 28th, 2013, 11:22 PM
Well since he's bi it's not like he should freak over a gay crush. I mean personally if I found out someone I knew had a crush on me I'd be flattered even if the feeling wasn't mutual. Since you've had a crush on him for a while now and it hasn't made you act in a way that made him uncomfortable, you've like proven to him having a crush on him isn't something that has to be a problem between you two. You know him better then me, but like I said, I'd at the least feel flattered.

Luminous
September 28th, 2013, 11:32 PM
I don't see what's wrong..?
Personally I would gladly date a bi girl, just because they like twice the genders doesn't mean they like twice the people or date two people.

Second Chance
September 29th, 2013, 02:11 AM
So there is this guy in my freshman class I like and He told me over the summer that he was bi. Well I just happened to developed a crush on him from that point on. And idk if he likes girls or guys more and i feel akward to bring it up and i relle dont know how to either. Can anyone help me???

Well, since the guy directly told you he is bi I take that as a message that he's interested in you. There is no way he would tell you that he is bi only to mostly go with girls. It is one thing if you found out about his sexuality from someone else, but the guy himself told you that he's also into other guys which is a clear message he's interested in you. I am guessing he was trying to see if you two could be more than friends. If you really like the guy, then I would ask him out because he more or less gave you a green light based upon your description above.

Mynick
September 29th, 2013, 04:05 AM
I don't see what's wrong..?
Personally I would gladly date a bi girl, just because they like twice the genders doesn't mean they like twice the people or date two people.
This. If he is bi he wont have a problem dating a gay guy.

sqishy
September 29th, 2013, 09:43 AM
Just bringing the subject up to him is a start. It's direct, but he directly told you he's bi, so I don't think it can get awkward. I agree with the others above.

steellord321
September 29th, 2013, 12:38 PM
Just ask him how you would to a gay guy. It doesn't matter if he likes girls too. You've got a chance

Seth Green
September 29th, 2013, 04:36 PM
If he's Bi there's no reason to not go for it. I mean like other have said, he did go out of his way to inform you.

McAK101
September 29th, 2013, 04:39 PM
All's you have to do is ask him. If he's bi, I don't see why he'd not date a guy as well. The worst thing he can do is say no.