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Rexster
September 27th, 2013, 02:22 PM
there is a girl at school who wants us to be gf/bf. we have gone to a couple of things at middle school but she is always the one asking. and she makes it hard to say no. she says all my friends are going so we should too. and she keeps asking until i give in. i am not interested in any girl. i am curious about guys. they are all i think about. i do not want to hurt her feelings or make her mad but i have tried before to tell her i am not looking for a gf and she just will not listen. how can i tell her and not make her mad or anything?

Abyssal Echo
September 27th, 2013, 02:48 PM
Be honest with her. tell her you're sorry but, you're not interested in her that way.

sqishy
September 27th, 2013, 03:52 PM
Be honest with her. tell her you're sorry but, you're not interested in her that way.

Agree. Best way to do it is to be plain and direct.

Rexster
September 28th, 2013, 07:43 AM
Like I said I have tried many times to tell her I am not looking for a gf but this girl just will not listen. She keeps asking me, to go out and do things like gf/bf would. I've been honest except not telling her I am curious or might even be gay. But if I tell her that, it will mean outing myself and I am not going to do that and survive. Not here. Not even at home. Being gay in the south. and people knowing it just is not safe.

Melodic
September 28th, 2013, 07:47 AM
Tell her you're interested in people a little bit different than her but you would be glad to be friends with her.