My bud gave me a handjob

[goodboy321]

I'm a 16 yr old str8 boy. One of my best best friends gave me a handjob once. He has recently come out to me as being gay, and wants me to give him a handjob. What do i do?!

[TommyTom]

Well if you enjoyed it why not give him a Handjob back?
If you are interested in it why not give him a Handjob back?
If you dont like it tell him thats not your sorta Thing and that you were curious!
But try to remember would you have said yes if he didnt come out as gay?? Cuz if the answer is yes then you should go for it because him beeing gay shouldnt Change a Thing cuz he always was gay :)

[merlin1]

It's really up to you and you shouldn't be influenced into doing something you don't want to. If you do want to do it then thats perfectly normal as many people, including myself, have experimented with other boys and it doesn't make you gay just curious which isn't a bad thing.

[sdude]

Tell him you are straight and that he needs to find a guy that wants to do that to him that is either gay, bi or bi-curious...Just because he gave you one, doesn't mean u owe him one back...if you want to because you are curious as well, go ahead, but not by any pressure of "owing" him anything. Since he is gay, he undoubtedly enjoyed very much giving you pleasure, and while you also enjoyed it, it doesn't mean u owe him "trade"....Friendships are worth much more than a handjob....and if you regret touching him, it will probably mess yours up!

[goodboy321]

yeah........i mean I have nothing against giving him a handjob, but I want him to understand I don't want it to be a regular occurrence if that makes sense

[Catholic Guy]

What did you do back, there's nothing wrong with that, it's just a bit of fun between friends, enjoy experimenting while you can, if you don't want it to be regular then tell him that

[goodboy321]

I think because we are such good friends and probably always will be, I will give in a handjob

[NeuroTiger]

It's a personal choice.
If you want to please him, like he did for you, just do it.
Otherwise, explain to him that's not your thing.

[Yolo98]

Dont do it if you dont want to , its your choice.

[McAK101]

It's your choice. If you want to do it, go for it! But if you feel uncomfortable about it, then just say so. He'll understand. If I were you, I'd take him up on his offer!

[nklarke]

You should do what you REALLY want and feel about ...

[Second Chance]

As I see it you don't have a problem with your friend being a jacking buddy, but you don't want things to go beyond that. If that is the case, then you got to tell your friend directly, like the others have said above, that while your okay with him being gay that when you do sexual stuff together that you both can never be boyfriends. Especially if you plan on having a girlfriend in the near future, then you might want to be careful getting handjobs from friend because there is no way you can continue doing that and have a girlfriend at the same time.

My take is that you enjoy the handjobs like any guy, but you just do not want the emotions that come along with it. If that is the case, then your best bet is to be friends with the guy but not do handjobs especially if he has a crush on you. The fact that your friend is doing handjobs on you means he is interested in you, and if you do not feel the same way back, then you might want to stop doing anything physical with him.

[kylem1229]

If you want to do it go ahead and do it. If you dont feel comfortable with it, dont do it.

[bwallace29]

Why not? You enjoyed it the first time!

[Scottydog]

Its completely up to you, don't be forced into doing anything you don't want to! Do what you feel is right, and enjoy yourself!

[johnsmith1]

I think because we are such good friends and probably always will be, I will give in a handjob

If you're happy to - go for it. Remember you can control how far you want this situation to go

[pjones]

It's a personal choice.
If you want to please him, like he did for you, just do it.
Otherwise, explain to him that's not your thing.

this is pretty good advice....

[Luke91]

I think because we are such good friends and probably always will be, I will give in a handjob
You sound confident that you want to try it. It is just experimenting and you have nothing to lose. Maybe he will then want to give you a second one. Have fun.

[mammolito96]

i agree with TommyTom; if you don't want to do it, just tell him, if you are curious about doing it give it a try

you didn't say if you wanted to do it or not so, maybe you're undecided? I'd give it a try to see how you feel after it, if it wasn't for you then you don't have to go back.

[Pontiac67]

I hope you and your best best friend remain friends after he came out being gay, he's going to have a rough road ahead, so give him your support. Since he is your best friend then talk to him regarding your feelings about him masturbating you or both of you masturbating each other. Better to talk than just flatly refuse, he may perceive that as you turning away from him after he came out

[Verde]

Just let him know how you feel. If his sexuality changes things for you, just tell home you're uncomfortable with it. But if it doesn't matter to you and you want to try it, give it a shot. Either way, do what you're comfortable with.

[NeuroTiger]

this is pretty good advice....

Thanks dude :)

[Starsong]

#flowchart

Do you want to give him hand (If yes then do it) (If no then tell him)

Does he take it badly (If yes then he's kinda silly, esp. if he knows you're straight)(If no then all good)

Simple~

[tom17]

If you really want to do it, go for it...
There's nothing wrong about it.
I'd definitely accept it.

[dddylan]

Well its just a handjob and you might like it. If not, you canalways say no

[riverboy]

Just let him know how you feel. If his sexuality changes things for you, just tell home you're uncomfortable with it. But if it doesn't matter to you and you want to try it, give it a shot. Either way, do what you're comfortable with.

This is what I would do.

[Zach1702]

IM all for handjobs (bj another level)
However do what u want to do

[JPTennisMan]

I say if you liked it you should give it a try. If you don't like it when you give him one, then just tell him afterwards

[irishguy123]

if ur comfortable with it, maybe u should repay the favor to ur friend

[kinger]

Its up to you but i dont see why you wouldnt give him a handjob.

[Michael_6]

Just do it and tell him that u don't want to make it a regular occurrence

[Verde]

Do it if you're comfortable. ONLY if you're comfortable

[Throwaway24]

If u like it and are ok with it then let him do it again. If he is gay he will like it to. IF u dont like it tell him that

[irogers707]

yeah........i mean I have nothing against giving him a handjob, but I want him to understand I don't want it to be a regular occurrence if that makes sense

Just tell him it's a one time thing

[MrIan]

yeah........i mean I have nothing against giving him a handjob, but I want him to understand I don't want it to be a regular occurrence if that makes sense

Yes. If u wanna then go for it. Tell him u don wanna in the future.

[rollingdownthestreet]

Yeah you can do whatever you want, it's up to you. If you go for it, I think you should just remind him that it won't mean anything just so he doesn't come on to you :)

[Woryh]

I say give him one. I have done it once...twice with a friend. I loved it.

[tanko]

It's up to u!

[canadaboy44]

if you liked it and want to do it again then do so, tell him that you are straight and that we are just helping eachother out

[salty]

Do what you are comfortable doing

[Seth Green]

If you're interested go for it. If you're not tell him no.

[Howareyou]

If I were you, I'd just go along with it and do it for him. It doesn't make you gay or anything, it's just experimenting.

[henry5331]

I'm a 16 yr old str8 boy. One of my best best friends gave me a handjob once. He has recently come out to me as being gay, and wants me to give him a handjob. What do i do?!

You do what you think it right. If he's trying to guilt you into giving him a handjob, tell him friends don't use each other like that. Otherwise if you don't have a problem doing it just do it. But you have to figure out if it's something you want to keep doing or not. Only you can make that choice. If he's really your friend he'll respect that.

[kangaroo]

just wank him off if you want to.. it wont hurt the friendship since you are returning the favour or if you don't just tell him you don't want to touch another guys penis. if he is a good friend he will understand that ur friendship is more important than getting a load off haha

[Hermes]

Really it is up to you. If you want to give him a hand job then do so and if you don't then don't.

Obviously it seems fairer to reciprocate but if you didn't agree that when he did you you don't have to do him, particularly if it makes you unfomfortable.

If you want to but worry he may want to go further then discuss this before hand and let him know where you draw the line.

[ryanpeterson832]

Give him one if your comfortable with it. Doing that does not necessarily mean you're gay.

[irishguy123]

I'm a 16 yr old str8 boy. One of my best best friends gave me a handjob once. He has recently come out to me as being gay, and wants me to give him a handjob. What do i do?!

So what did you do in the end? Did you give him one or not? :confused:

[goodboy321]

So what did you do in the end? Did you give him one or not? :confused:

yeah I gave hime one! enjoyed it

[drew6]

yeah I gave hime one! enjoyed it

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[goodboy321]

It took me a few months to get up the nerve to do that with my friend. Was it like that for you or was it something you didn't think about much?

I thought about it for a while, was glad i did it!

[jff16190]

Congratulations man, wish iwas that lucky!!!!

[sdude]

Been on both sides of this and only if u want to, but my guess is if u are horny enough (like me) you'll go for it and enjoy it!!

[Deactivated]

I'd have to agree with most people replying so far; it's up to you. If you feel comfortable with the thought of this happening, then it's fine if you want to. The same goes for if you don't. However, if you do, just remind him that this will won't be a regular thing if you don't want it to be; therefore, he wont feel as if it's okay to ask for this on a regular basis.

[Draquesmasher]

I want this to happen to me too

[Zanman11]

If you're comfortable to do it, then do it, but explain that youre not gay. If you don't want to, nobody is forcing you

[Azalez070]

It's probably best you politely say no because he might like you and allowing him to do this might make him think you like him back.

Is not that i dont like a girl to be here, but i think girls can't be in "Puberty for boys".
I think is the rules.
Im great with you being around, but just to let you know :P

[kinger]

Its really your call you can give him a handjob back if you want or not. i would if i was you its only fair

[benchpress]

I thought about it for a while, was glad i did it!

Did you discuss it with your girlfriend and was she ok with it?

[Dundun99]

either do it or tell him that youd rather not because your not gay

[dddylan]

A handjob is just a handjob. He gave you one, and it would be nice to return it. I bet you'd like it. And no one is forcing you, so if you truly dont want to, just dont :)

[ComfortableInChaos]

Well, if he did it to you, I'd think you should do it back. But if you're not comfortable with it, then don't do it.

[wirelessbrain]

It's a bit weird because you don't expect your straight friend to say yes for a blowjob. It's just not how it goes but it's all up to you

[chezhans]

I hope you and your best best friend remain friends after he came out being gay, he's going to have a rough road ahead, so give him your support. Since he is your best friend then talk to him regarding your feelings about him masturbating you or both of you masturbating each other. Better to talk than just flatly refuse, he may perceive that as you turning away from him after he came out

And there is my exact answer….taken by someone else ;)
A.K.A. Give what you think is right and let him know what you think and maybe you could both work together. His sexuality is no barrier to your friendship.

[Beltway]

I say try it your only young once if i had that chance i go for it.

[roadwarrior]

that was slightly weird

[Sammy07]

You should do it... It's socially acceptable.

[shark_attack]

What ever you really wanna do tbh :) like, it's all experience it won't make you gay it's just experimenting

[Aaron55]

well if you're friends, what bad could come of it?

[fordgtguy]

thats fucked up

[zach2424]

Talk to him about it and think about if you enjoyed it or not

[dtranger04]

if your not comfortable dont do it

[WHTaft09]

I'm straight and my friend and I have given each other hand jobs before. What's wrong with a little helping hand? It's like learning too as he is cut and I am not so we feel what it is like to jerk off the other kind of dick. If your not comfortable don't do it, but it's perfectly normal.

[loki2000]

up to you ..if you would have fun and enjoy beating him off..go for it..then you could work up to doing it to each other at the same time

[Tkennard]

I'm straight and my friend and I have given each other hand jobs before. What's wrong with a little helping hand? It's like learning too as he is cut and I am not so we feel what it is like to jerk off the other kind of dick. If your not comfortable don't do it, but it's perfectly normal.

You do this often?

[curryjacket]

Handjobs aren't a big deal.

[WHTaft09]

You do this often?

No, it happened only a couple of times, not often. I'm straight and I much prefer doing things with girls.

[Gifford]

It's perfectly normal to experiment w/a friend or buddy. Nothing gay about it at all, no matter how often you do it. It would only be gay for you if you had emotional feelings for your friend, & there's nothing wrong with you if you did have feelings for your friend.

The definition of being gay requires that you have emotional feelings of being "in love with" your same-sex partner. If you do not, don't worry about it, it's normal. And don't let anyone try to define who you are. It's your business & your business alone.

[jacobjb10]

well if you want to experiment then go for it. if your worried that its gay, its not unless you have feelings for him.

[oscar29]

this kind of thing happened to me,

i made a new friend at school and he invited me to stay over at his house. as the night went on he searched up porn on his laptop( i didn't want to watch it) i got a boner i tried hard to hide it but he caught me.
he kept pushing his hand down my pants but i slapped it away more than 10 times but in the end he was to determined so i just let him jerk me off.

i told him i didn't want to speak about it again.

when i saw him in school the following week there was a point when we were alone and he insisted that we went to the toilets and do it again so i told him to fuck off and thats sort of put an end to it.

[Tkennard]

this kind of thing happened to me,

i made a new friend at school and he invited me to stay over at his house. as the night went on he searched up porn on his laptop( i didn't want to watch it) i got a boner i tried hard to hide it but he caught me.
he kept pushing his hand down my pants but i slapped it away more than 10 times but in the end he was to determined so i just let him jerk me off.

i told him i didn't want to speak about it again.

when i saw him in school the following week there was a point when we were alone and he insisted that we went to the toilets and do it again so i told him to fuck off and thats sort of put an end to it.

I think you should have only done what you were comfortable with or wanted.

[Jtyler]

If you feel uncomfortable than don't do it and ask him not to

[SouthGeorgiaTeen]

Don't do it if you don't want to

[Pulp501]

I don't think it is bad to give or get a hand job but make sure he knows you aren't gay and it won't go any further like a relationship.

[jmw99]

i would just do it if you feel the same way he does

[daniel 2014]

Good decision.

[MTB1997]

Go for it! What no one knows wont hurt them ;)

[AlexOnToast]

It's really your call. If you want to do it, go for it. If not, then thats the end of that

[Ben101]

Only do it if you're comfortable with doing so.

[Remora]

It's all your choice, but if you don't want to then tell them. I didn't and that resulted in me having a cock in my mouth when i was only 12.

[Zachary G]

well, if you are comfortable with doing it for him then go for it, but if you arent then you should tell him that you dont feel comfortable with doing it, if he is your friend he will respect that and not ask again.

[Jeonard]

if you feel comfortable in doing so then why not but dont feel forced into doing stuff because ultimately it is your decision

[BJustinT]

I would, it's the best when someone is giving you a handjob. Cumming without touching your own cock

[shadynorm333]

Only do what feels natural. If it doesn't, be smart and find a way to refuse while being nice.

[LunarScorpio]

As has been said by so many before me, it is your call. IF you want to and he does, then it is cool, if either of you don' then simply dont do it

[jjj8995]

just do it, but tell him this is tthe only time

[Remora]

You are definitely not interested in him, judging from your post at least. If that is the case, just either make sure that he wants this solely for the purpose of experimenting or tell him that he doesn't have to expect you to want more.

[DarkHorse4eva]

just tell him exactly how you feel, he'll understand

[awesomeness14]

Give him one back since he gave you one.

[NickCollins]

if your liked it and want to go for it

[Curious.kid]

That sounds like a lot of fun if you don't have to do it yourself. You can give him one back as a thank you present. Even if hrs gay it's still a nice thing to do.

[Bboy35]

That sounds like a lot of fun if you don't have to do it yourself. You can give him one back as a thank you present. Even if hrs gay it's still a nice thing to do.

Oh yessss. it feels sooo much better when a friend does it for you.

[Fireangel]

I'm a 16 yr old str8 boy. One of my best best friends gave me a handjob once. He has recently come out to me as being gay, and wants me to give him a handjob. What do i do?!

Just go for it and enjoy the moment. :)

[Fireangel]

Oh yessss. it feels sooo much better when a friend does it for you.

I am Agree.

[Fireangel]

That sounds like a lot of fun if you don't have to do it yourself. You can give him one back as a thank you present. Even if hrs gay it's still a nice thing to do.

Totally agree with you dear kid :)

[BronxTheBoss]

Just like everyone is saying if you don't want to do it then you don't have to just explain that it was an one time thing and that you just don't like that kind of stuff

[ugaboy]

Well if you enjoyed what he did for you - then by all means, return the favor.