Fetish? Is it weird?

[Logan96]

First off thanks for your help
So i just developed 2 new fetishes
1.) I want to go to jail when im horny. No seriously its like i want to be in there, and get really big dicks. Or i want to be spanked, or tied down.
2.) hands, i just started doing this... I will sometimes look at a random guys hand, and be like woo his fingers are long i bet he has a big dick.
Thanks for your help

[Second Chance]

Well, there is no logic to fetishes, and the reality is that anything sexual can seem weird to someone who doesn't understand that interest.

Fetish #1)

It seems like you have a bondage fetish which is not exactly uncommon, and there are definitely folks out there who get off when they are bound and abused. I guess as long as the folks who are into this fetish are willing participants, then I suppose it is not wrong. Even then, you still got to be careful because things with this kind of fetish can get out of control pretty quickly like what had happened in Ohio with that guy who had kidnapped those three girls and kept them imprisoned in his house because he had some bondage fetish. Just make sure that if you are really into this that there are limits and that neither you or anyone else gets hurt. Also, if you have to do this while your being sexual, then you have to make sure the other person is doing it willingly. If you pressure someone into doing this type of thing, then that is how you get into trouble.

2) Hand fetish

Folks will get turned on by anything, and the human body is a beautiful thing. There are foot, belly button, leg, breast, arm, etc. fetishes, and you are not exactly a weirdo for liking a part of the human body.


Just be careful with your fetishes, especially the first one, and as long as you keep yourself in control and never force your fetish on someone else, then you will not be a weirdo. A weirdo is someone who can't control himself and forces his sexuality on others.

[Logan96]

Well, there is no logic to fetishes, and the reality is that anything sexual can seem weird to someone who doesn't understand that interest.

Fetish #1)

It seems like you have a bondage fetish which is not exactly uncommon, and there are definitely folks out there who get off when they are bound and abused. I guess as long as the folks who are into this fetish are willing participants, then I suppose it is not wrong. Even then, you still got to be careful because things with this kind of fetish can get out of control pretty quickly like what had happened in Ohio with that guy who had kidnapped those three girls and kept them imprisoned in his house because he had some bondage fetish. Just make sure that if you are really into this that there are limits and that neither you or anyone else gets hurt. Also, if you have to do this while your being sexual, then you have to make sure the other person is doing it willingly. If you pressure someone into doing this type of thing, then that is how you get into trouble.

2) Hand fetish

Folks will get turned on by anything, and the human body is a beautiful thing. There are foot, belly button, leg, breast, arm, etc. fetishes, and you are not exactly a weirdo for liking a part of the human body.


Just be careful with your fetishes, especially the first one, and as long as you keep yourself in control and never force your fetish on someone else, then you will not be a weirdo. A weirdo is someone who can't control himself and forces his sexuality on others.
What would be the best way to keeping it under control

[Second Chance]

What would be the best way to keeping it under control

For starters, if you look at porn a lot and most of the porn you look at is the bondage kind, then you might want to cut that down. If you're in a relationship and the person is totally against being tied up or tying you up, then you got to drop it right away; that's keeping it under control. Also, if you find the only way you can get off is by tying someone else up or being tied up, then you have to learn to find other ways to get turned on. While there are plenty of folks that have your fetish there are others who definitely do not think the same way. If you run into someone who is into your fetish, then make sure you never hurt them because that is being in control. If you are with someone who hates your fetish, then don't ever do it with them because that is being in control of your feelings.


The hand thing is not a big deal, and there is not much to control there.

[ksdnfkfr]

What would be the best way to keeping it under control

Oh you were being serious? In that case I'll second what Second Chance said.
As for keeping it under control, I'd say apply self discipline, rationality and common sense.

[Harley Quinn]

Discussions of fetishes is hardly puberty or appropriate. :locked: