Me and my friend

[Logan96]

First off thank you for reading this. I need help and I need it fast.
So here is the situation. My friend is coming over Friday night, and i am really nervous. We ave been bestfriends since Kindergarden and I am now a junior and high school. We used to hang out every weekend, when I turned 15, i went to his house and asked him if he jerked off and he said well do you and i was like yeah, he was like yeah i do. Next thing you know we layed beside eachother and jerked off under the sheets, and we did that, and never saw eachother. So a couple months ago, he came over we were bored, and i ended up giving him a blow job, that happened 2 times, and now.... He is coming over friday night and he wants to have sex.... I am a virgin and i have never had anything up my butt, He is really really big and thick. He asked me not to prepare for it (fingering myself etc..) i said sure i wont. So here is the question... I am really nevous and worried about how much it will hurt. Should i break my promise and prepare and loose his trust, or do i suffer through the pain.
Thanks so much,

[ksdnfkfr]

Oh sure, it's all about pain and suffering. That's what friends are for.

[Second Chance]

Assuming this is for real, then I think you need to put the brakes on and think with your big head and not your little one.

First, do you know for a fact your friend is clean? What I mean is that assuming he is not a virgin, then how do you know that he has not caught something from another person? Anyone who is responsible with their body will always demand from their partner proof that they're clean. When I mean clean what I mean is that they have a very recent lab report indicating their negative for STDs.

Second, do you have condom and lube, and do you know how to use a condom especially since you're a virgin? Chances are you might also do some penetrating yourself since your friend clearly wants to teach you about sex, and you need to be prepared.

Third, do you know how to clean out your rectum? Guys who do anal sex sometimes do flush things out down there by using an enema just to make sure that there is no any left over feces and other material down there. If you do not know how to clean down there, then you might be taking things too quickly.

Fourth, in case something goes wrong and you suffer some sort of injury (i.e. a torn rectum), then can you get access to healthcare? Would you feel comfortable telling your parents why your butt is bleeding a lot if your friend is as big as you say? Would you be able to get access to treatment in case your friend lied to you and he had some STD?

Lastly, since this is your first time, then will you have privacy and enough time to take things slowly? What I mean is that if your parents are only going to be out the house for like an hour, then that won't be enough time to make sure you both are doing things right. You have to be really relaxed for your first time because if you're nervous, then things will be tight down there, and it's going to hurt a lot.


I guess you can do what you want, but you have to make sure you know all the facts because jumping in bed.

[Harley Quinn]

I don't find this appropriate. You have the above answer. :locked: