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Jimhello191191
September 25th, 2013, 11:18 AM
So i am going to need a bit of advice i currently the 15yrs old going on 16 next week and i am in my last year of school. So i believe that i am straight, not had a girlfriend to date but well being a boy i have had my heart set on a few :wub:. Before anyone comments i just like to point out, i am not the year bully neither am i the one who gets bullied, i am just the guy in the middle who you would call is friend zoned with everyone although i have none of those really good friend who i can freely talk to about this kind of topics so this is why i am here :)....
Now i am not sure if i am becoming bi or not, because yes i am not the skinniest guy around but i have these urges to look at my friend's bodies epically when we are getting changed for P.E (gym) or other such activities. On certain occasions i have mastubated to a few pictures and it feel good but wrong and the thing is i feel that it is my mind doing that not me as a person, as all of these people are my friend and trust me, but at the same time i feel like it an act of betrayal and it is me doing stuff behind there backs :L

Comment freely below, its nice to finally get that out... Them thoughts have been in me for a few years :(


Thanks, feel free to plop questions down too : )

Harley Quinn
September 25th, 2013, 11:26 AM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

Jimhello191191
September 25th, 2013, 11:31 AM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

Opps Sorry ^.^
I just thought it was more of a boys thing :P

Living For Love
September 25th, 2013, 11:51 AM
I don't think there's nothing wrong with it. Don't worry too much about labelling yourself. It's normal if you feel atracted to guys up to a certain point.

JamesSuperBoy
September 25th, 2013, 12:34 PM
Not yet having a GF is no indicator of your sexuality - being curious about other guys is again more a stage of growing up so do not rush to lablel your self or doubt. It is normal to feel guilt as well.

sqishy
September 25th, 2013, 01:09 PM
Not yet having a GF is no indicator of your sexuality - being curious about other guys is again more a stage of growing up so do not rush to lablel your self or doubt. It is normal to feel guilt as well.
Agreed.

NeuroTiger
September 25th, 2013, 01:19 PM
Do not label yourself.
It's just the process of growing up.
Just review your personal objectives and current happenings, then draw a conclusion. That's what I usually do if I encounter any problem.

Throwaway24
October 23rd, 2013, 05:44 PM
What i would do (and did) is have a sort of test. Try it out with a boy and see what you think. If u like it do it again, if u don't then there is the answer to ur question

fast8
October 23rd, 2013, 06:08 PM
Its not something we can tell u if u are or not that u will have to fine that out but don't worry about it ti much try with a boy and see if u like it

Alex_3869
October 27th, 2013, 10:06 PM
It could be curiosity. Not having a GF doesn't mean you are not wanting to (insert dirty sexual action here) them. Labeling yourself too quickly wont do you much good. Only you know what you are deep down.

Verminicious Knid
October 28th, 2013, 12:47 PM
There's no point rushing to your conclusions about your sexuality. Some people spend years finding themselves.

Heck, I've known I'm bisexual for 3 years and not told anybody.

Just take some time to figure it out. If you want to come out about it, then do so. But just be careful who you tell, only trust people close to you.

If you want to talk about it, feel free to send me a message :)